HOW TO KNOW WHO IS THE NARCISSIST AND WHO IS THE EMPATH IN A COUPLE

It is very hard for the average public to know who is the narcissist and who is the victim / Empath in a relationship. Most people believe anyone who tells them anything – the narcissist knows that most people will believe everything they say and they are professional grade liars.

– Narcissists will tell their false narrative first to as many who will listen and they will post on social media – they want to get their narrative out first in order to gain sympathy from as many as possible. Then they will continue to lie with additional false details to make the narrative cause even more to feel sorry for them as appearing like they are a victim.

– Narcissists will say they are married to a crazy or abusive person and accuse their spouse of being a Narcissist often

– Narcissists will tell you how they were a victim and cry many fake tears

– Narcissists will act overly nice to as many people as possible – but it is fake nice

– Narcissists must be in charge of everything and everyone – if you don’t do what they want you will see them rise up against you

-Narcissists create lots of unnecessary drama

– Narcissists walk in false humility

– Narcissists tend to not have a good record of work history and spend lots of $ on their image, they are not reliable and have no integrity, so will often be in debt and the person they marry will have their money taken from them and spent by the narcissist

– If they are church goers they will act very religious – image is everything – but will never repent

– Empaths suffer from depression, anxiety, PTSD, are much quieter and are in shock at what just happened with all the drama

– Empaths don’t go on social media and blast their narcissist- they limit communication to as few of people as possible about their abuse

– Empaths truly loved their narcissist and have compassion for them while being lied about and smeared publicly

– Empaths stay in the background and keep their abuse much more private

– Empaths behave beaten down and emotionally broken and genuinely sad

– Empaths cry real tears

– Empaths walk in true humility and there is a genuineness to them

– Empaths have a good track record in their work history and are reliable and have integrity

– Empaths are not religious, no false piety – they are real and most are godly and have very good hearts

When a narcissist grew up they got hurt by a mother or father or sexually violated via porn, touched or molested then they felt unprotected and controlled by people who didnt have their best interests at heart. They unfortunately didn’t forgive those who hurt them and then demons tormented their minds.

Then as they grew into an adult they heard demonic spirits telling them that they better not let anyone hurt them again so you better control everyone and everything and make them do what you feel is best or else you will get hurt again. Thus they become controlling just like their father or mother or others who hurt them. They hear demonic voices and do what the demons tell them to do. The only way they can change is to want to change, forgive all who hurt them, repent for pride and sin, command demons out. Walk in fruit of the spirit. The spiritual root of Narcissism is the Jezebel and Leviathan spirits. Empaths have the Ahab spirit.