MANY FAMILIES RESEMBLE A NARCISSIST, EMPATH, GOLDEN CHILD & SCAPEGOAT Many grow up with a toxic dysfunctional family where a father or mother is a narcissist (Jezebel spirit) and their spouse is an Empath (Ahab spirit). The Empath allows the Narcissist to run the show because they get benefits of the Narc threatening others to give them what they want. Sadly when they have children they hurt them and cause future Narcissists and Empaths. In 1 and 2 Kings in the Bible Jezebel and Ahab birthed a daughter named Athaliah who was the golden child and became a Narcissistic Jezebel. Their sons Ahaziah and Jehoram became like their father and had the same Ahab spirit. This same family dynamic continues to happen today.  Often one of the children in a family has a good honest heart who wants to do right and sees the evil in the parents and will not just put their head in the sand and stay silent with their sinful evil behaviors. Of course the narcissistic parent hates that child because they won’t ignore their toxic sinful behavior and instead stands up to them and tells them where they are wrong and need to change. That…

HOW TO KNOW WHO IS THE NARCISSIST AND WHO IS THE EMPATH IN A COUPLE It is very hard for the average public to know who is the narcissist and who is the victim / Empath in a relationship. Most people believe anyone who tells them anything - the narcissist knows that most people will believe everything they say and they are professional grade liars.  - Narcissists will tell their false narrative first to as many who will listen and they will post on social media - they want to get their narrative out first in order to gain sympathy from as many as possible. Then they will continue to lie with additional false details to make the narrative cause even more to feel sorry for them as appearing like they are a victim.  - Narcissists will say they are married to a crazy or abusive person and accuse their spouse of being a Narcissist often - Narcissists will tell you how they were a victim and cry many fake tears - Narcissists will act overly nice to as many people as possible - but it is fake nice  - Narcissists must be in charge of everything and everyone -…

YOU HAVE A MORAL COMPASS SO HAVE BEEN LABELED THE SCAPEGOAT / BLACK SHEEP  Today there are many people in the world who have been unknowingly selected to be the scapegoat in their family and in other relationships in life such as work, marriages, ministry, church, etc. In a family situation the scapegoat carries the sins of their own family (which typically have many members in the family who are unhealthy, toxic and/or dysfunctional). For instance, Dad is an alcoholic, sex addict, aggressor, prideful while Mom is his enabler. Or Mom is angry, controlling, belittling, prideful, demanding and Dad is her enabler. The family is expected to deny the truth of their parent’s dysfunction and hide it from the public (keep their dirty laundry buried in the backyard). So what the toxic family members will do is to label one of their children the “problem child” and blame everything that is wrong with their family on that child. This scapegoated child can do no right in their eyes.  The scapegoated child typically has a moral compass and is a truth teller that won’t look the other way and ignore sin, but have a very good heart. The parent who is…

SATAN SENDS HIS JEZEBELS TO MARRY GOD’S PEOPLE  In the church there are many marriages which are compromised consisting of people where one operates in the Jezebel spirit and the other either in the Ahab spirit or is desiring much more to be obedient to the things of God.  Jezebel can operate in a woman or a man, Ahab can be in a man or a woman. Satan’s goal is to get his Jezebels to marry and then have the Jezebel control and manipulate their spouse to keep them from obeying the Lord and completing their calling. Jezebel’s assignment is to cause their spouse to compromise, tolerate sin and make their spouse’s life miserable. They will dominate them to keep them from doing what God wants. Jezebels want to stay married to their spouse as long as they can but only to emotionally abuse them to stop them from accomplishing what God wants. They will lie to others and blame their spouse for things that they do to them and act like they were the victim.  Then when their victimized spouse finally has endured enough abuse and goes to a counselor or pastor they will lie and blame everything on…

MOST COUPLES RESEMBLE JEZEBEL AND AHAB Most every couple / marriage today resembles the similar traits of queen Jezebel and King Ahab in 1 and 2 Kings.  The spirit of Jezebel can affect a woman or a man and the spirit of Ahab affects men or women. Those two spirits will draw people together into relationships.  People who operate in the spirit of Jezebel have the following traits: Controlling and demanding  Manipulative, threatening & intimidating  Must get their way on most decisions Selfish  Lies a lot - especially about things they did or said that are evil Extremely jealous and insecure  Accuse you of who they are Have many broken relationships  Many are Seductive - can use their sexuality to entice others Spends lots of money Their image is everything to them Often cannot keep their jobs or positions People who operate in the Ahab spirit have the following traits: Feels secure in marrying a person who acts like they are decisive and can run the show  Wants peace at all cost so will allow evil to be done by people instead of standing up to confront  Good at making money and keeping their job Get drawn in to Jezebel’s…

JEZEBEL LOVES STRIFE AND HATES PEACE People who operate in the Jezebel spirit love to strive and argue and hate peace. They are used to getting people to give them what they want when they get angry and threaten and intimidate them in fear. They will provoke you until you can no longer stay at peace and then when you say something back to them in retaliation they blame you for not getting along with them. The spirit of Jezebel causes them to rant and rage, talk on and on and on without ceasing for hours. Jezebel causes arguments, fighting, strife and will change the subject multiple times in order to shift the discussion away from the real issues concerning their own bad behavior to something totally irrelevant. People who operate in the spirit of Jezebel have no peace in their minds. Ever. Just torment from their demons every day. They get hit with 12,000 or more thoughts a day of which 80% are negative and 95% the same thoughts they had the day before. So what does the Bible say about striving and arguing? 2 Timothy 2:23-26 NKJV 23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate…

JEZEBEL & AHAB HAD MONEY & CONTROL BUT ELIJAH OVERCAME WITH GOD’S ANOINTING Jezebel and Ahab had money, power, religious worship of idols, control, murdered people who were against them and yet Elijah had God’s anointing and was able to stop the rain, kill the 850 prophets of Baal and Asherah and defeat Jezebel and Ahab. People today who are serving Jezebel and Ahab often have money, control and power and try to stop those who are truly of God. They try to shut them down and lie about them to as many who will listen just like Jezebel did to Naboth. Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard for a vegetable garden so Jezebel lied about Naboth accusing him of blaspheming God and coming against King Ahab and killed him to steal his vineyard to give to Ahab. People today will be accused by Jezebel with lies to manipulate other people to come against those of the Lord who are innocent. 1 Kings 21 NKJV Naboth Is Murdered for His Vineyard 21 And it came to pass after these things that Naboth the Jezreelite had a vineyard which was in Jezreel, next to the palace of Ahab king of Samaria. 2 So…

BREAKING FREE FROM THE SPIRIT OF AHAB “In the thirty-eighth year of Asa king of Judah, Ahab the son of Omri became king over Israel; and Ahab the son of Omri reigned over Israel in Samaria twenty-two years. Now Ahab the son of Omri did evil in the sight of the LORD, more than all who were before him. And it came to pass, as though it had been a trivial thing for him to walk in the sins of Jeroboam the son of Nebat, that he took as wife Jezebel the daughter of Ethbaal, king of the Sidonians; and he went and served Baal and worshiped him. Then he set up an altar for Baal in the temple of Baal, which he had built in Samaria. And Ahab made a wooden image. Ahab did more to provoke the LORD God of Israel to anger than all the kings of Israel who were before him.” ‭‭I Kings‬ ‭16:29-33‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ 1 Kings 16:29 through 22:40 contains the narrative of Ahab's reign. His reign was slightly more emphasised upon than the previous kings, due to his blatant trivialization of the "sins of Jeroboam", which the previous kings of Israel were plagued by,…

JEZEBEL & AHAB COUPLES SACRIFICE THEIR OWN CHILDREN Jezebel worshipped Baal and caused Ahab to bow down to Baal when she married him. Baal worship practiced the sacrifice of babies and children to Molech. Ahab did more evil in the sight of the Lord because Jezebel stirred him up. What Jezebel wanted she got. Their own children Athaliah, Jehoram (became 9th king of Judah and was evil) and Ahaziah were all hurt and wounded and did what was evil in the sight of the Lord. He who brought his child, the priests would say that he is offering the greatest sacrifice. He would enter the innermost chamber and go kiss Molech . . . The priests would then take the child and place it near Molech. They would then bang with drums to drown out their cries. How obsessed the nation was with idol worship that they were willing to do something so reprehensible! But in the future, says God, “I will remove your heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh.” The priests would bang and clap to drown the noise from the child’s screams so that the father and mother would not regret their decision.…

There are many ways that Christians tolerate sin in their lives.  Most struggle due to being hurt growing up – a parent, step-parent, other relative, sibling, neighbors, kids at school, teachers, church people, etc.   When we are hurt emotionally, verbally, physically or sexually we will hear demonic voices in our heads telling us not to trust anyone, having thoughts of anger or bitterness for those who hurt us, wanting to get back at people, being sad for all the injustices. Thus forgiveness is imperative in order to take away the legal rights of the demons so you can command them to go from you so you can have more peaceful thoughts and fruit of the spirit. Have you ever thought through some of the ways that Satan causes you to tolerate sin? #1 – Bullying. If you have a relationship with someone who historically gets angry or will go on and on arguing with you if you don’t give them what they want (and their desires are for things that are not what the Lord would want you to allow them to do or get) then you will usually give in to them and let them have what they want. …