THE RELIGIOUS SPIRIT WILL FORCE YOU TO STAY MARRIED TO YOUR ABUSER We all want marriages to be healthy and loving and kind but both the husband and wife have a freewill to choose to love each other in a godly way or hurt the other. If a person refuses to get healed from their soul wounds, forgive those who hurt them and repent for pride and sin then they will manifest in a demonic way on their spouse to control and manipulate them emotionally. People in the church who operate out of a religious spirit will often force those being emotionally abused to stay married to their abuser which will cause them to have no peace and ultimately stop their assignment from the Lord. The religious people will demean and shame them to stay in their abusive marriages with their demonic spouse who will act like they are godly but have no fruit of the spirit and walk in their flesh. God never wants anyone to stay in an emotionally, physically or sexually abusive marriage. It can literally cause you to get sick and die early. Most of the religious people will guilt those who are being abused to…

GOD WANTS MARRIAGES THAT ARE HOLY NOT COMPROMISED God wants both husband and wife to be aligned with living a godly life according to the Bible. They need to both have fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control). They need to both walk in humility and sexual purity. If your spouse is not living a godly life and is living a sinful life of the flesh then they will try to get you to compromise and tolerate sin in your life. They will come against you fulfilling your calling in the Lord. They will try to pull you away from living a life full of integrity and sexual purity and follow them instead of God which can ultimately affect your salvation if you give yourself over to them in order to “keep the peace.” There was a woman in the Bible named Sapphire who agreed to sin with her husband and it unfortunately cost her life. “But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession. And he kept back part of the proceeds, his wife also being aware of it, and brought a certain part and laid it at…

EMOTIONAL ABUSE IS THE SILENT KILLER OF MARRIAGES IN THE CHURCH No one wants to address the 800 lb gorilla in every church in the world. Satan wants to force people to stay in marriages where one person is the abuser and the other person is their victim behind closed doors. The church sadly is filled with many religious people controlled by demons screaming that “God hates divorce” in order to keep the abused victims chained to their abusers for life until they die unable to do much of anything for Christ yet they stay silent on “God hates abuse in marriage which causes divorce.” So those who are controlling, manipulative, coercive, prideful, evil, demanding and destructive get away with slowly killing their spouse by tormenting them into sickness and disease through constant emotional abuse over years resulting in their victim’s hair loss, weight gain or loss, depression, suicidal thoughts, and lack of any true sexual intimacy often developing into sexual abuse. There are many men and women who demand their spouse obey them like a slave behind closed doors instead of loving them like Christ while acting like they are such a loving and doting spouse in front of…