COMPULSIVE TALKING CAN BE A SIGN OF A NARCISSIST / JEZEBEL SPIRIT

Compulsive talking often manifests in anxiety and a relentless desire to self-promote talking about one’s self and our accomplishments and to make ourselves appear to look significant and smart due to feeling unheard, anxious, insecure and wounded as a child. They often try to convince others that they are great people who care about others when they only care about themselves. When a person dominates a conversation and tends to talk on and on and does not allow the other person they are talking with to get a word in edgewise it can indicate that they have not been healed from soul wounds in childhood and could be under the influence of the spirit of Jezebel which causes them to dominate other people in conversation to ultimately control them and make them listen to everything they say due to their fear, anxiety and insecurities and having no interest in the other person’s thoughts or opinions.

It starts in childhood when a child is wounded emotionally by a person, often a parent, or can be sexually violated as they will begin to hear demonic spirits giving them thousands of thoughts a day which torment them, due to not being able to forgive and be healed (Matthew 18:21-35). Then when they engage in a conversation with someone as an adult they will feel compelled to dominate conversations, and can talk for hours – often about their hurts and wounds from childhood and those who wounded them throughout their lives.

Often when a child has been wounded by a parent they will be shut down and feel rejected and unvalued for their opinions and essentially told to be silent. Then as they grow older they will overcompensate as they want to be heard as they are very insecure so can often behave very charismatically yet struggle with pride and feeling inadequate so will talk on and on and over talk others and telling people how much they know and how smart they are and even belittling others.

When a person is healed of their soul wounds, forgiven all who hurt them, repented for pride and sin and been delivered from demonic spirits and taking all negative thoughts captive they will be able to engage in a normal conversation where the communication is 50/50 allowing the other person to also share and be heard and feel valued. Then they will walk in peace which is a fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:16-26) and not hear thousands of negative demonic thoughts every day and not feel compelled to dominate conversations.