When people get hurt growing up they often hear demonic spirits in their minds / thoughts which cause them to desire to receive sympathy from other people. They literally want people to feel sorry for them because they enjoy the special treatment and attention. Often a parent can exacerbate the issue by treating them like a little girl or boy and not allowing their consequences to teach them lessons to change. They are called helicopter parents for hovering over them trying to help them out of any mess that they get into because of their own doing. Many use it to play on people’s heart strings and emotions to have them give them money and other financial benefits. It is the “poor, poor pitiful me – please feel sorry for me because I am so innocent and abused and need you to help me by giving me your money” attitude. Often times they have been hurt in their past but then hurt other people who have had relationships with them and then those people separate from them due to the abuse. Then they lie about those who separate from them to be able to live in peace to get others to feel sorry for them and then get money from them. They are masters at acting and playing the victim card. They have pride because they want people to feel sorry for how much they have been hurt and suffered.
They often live their entire lives lying to many people to play on their mercy hearts and have people give them financial gifts, have fundraisers on Facebook, donate clothes, appliances, even cars and homes to them. If they are a woman they will subtly seduce men to give them money by touching their arms or shoulders or talking softly or like a little girl to them. If they are a man they will often act like they are so sad and needy and subtly seduce a woman by telling them that the Lord highlighted them and if you could just sow into their lives or ministry. The truth is that people with the victim spirit know how to play your heart strings like a guitar because they are hearing demons tell them what to do and say. They are fakes and will use you.
So pray about a person before you give them any money, especially if they are asking for it over and over again. When people are bold enough to put it out there on social media they usually are exposing that they have an underlying spiritual issue and want you to absolve them from taking responsibility for it. They often live a lifetime of expecting others to help them out of their jams when they need to look inward and upward to God and deal with why they are unable to live a more godly life. They need to pursue inner healing and deliverance from their issues from their past. They need to own their own issues instead of allowing their issues to own them and expect others to pay.
2 Thessalonians 3:10 NKJV
John Piper said “Self-pity is the response of pride to suffering.”
John Gardner says, “Self-pity is easily the most destructive of non-pharmaceutical narcotics. It is addictive. Gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.”
Charles Shields says, “Self-pity is a sin. It is a form of living suicide.”
John 5:1-9 NKJV
Jesus got straight to the point with the man at Bethesda. He asked him if he really wanted to be healed. He didn’t listen to him lament about his current situation that lasted 38 years. He wanted to know if he really wanted to be healed and then told him to rise, take up his bed and walk. Immediately the man did and he was healed. There are many people who don’t truly want to be healed or to take responsibility for themselves as they enjoy all the sympathy and pity parties they receive. I know of some people who don’t want to be healed of physical issues or diseases because then they would have to come off of disability with the government and actually have to work. It’s time to just say no and stop allowing yourself to be used by people who have no intentions of taking responsibility for their bad choices as you are prolonging them of getting truly delivered and freed.
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