There is more of a struggle today than ever before within the church between couples who are in relationship where there is strife to the point of emotional abuse between husband and wife (both men against women and women against men). Most in the church know of the Bible scripture below concerning that wives should submit to their husbands and that husbands should love their wives: Ephesians 5:22-27 NKJV Marriage—Christ and the Church "22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish." When a godly husband chooses to submit himself…

Most relationships have one person who takes on the same characteristics of Jezebel and the other person like Ahab in 1st and 2nd Kings. People get the Jezebel spirit because of being hurt growing up by their mom or dad or step parent or others or through sexual violations (viewing porn, touched, molested or raped). This causes them to hear demons and they want their own way and to control their spouse and others. They then look for a partner to marry who they can control who is willing to compromise and tolerate their ungodly demands who will give in to them, which is the Ahab spirit. People get the Ahab spirit because they have a parent who gives in and compromises and aligns themselves with that spirit.  Ahabs have a comfort level with their spouse demanding their way in order to help get them what they want.  Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard but when he asked him to sell him his vineyard so he could turn it into a garden Naboth refused.  So Ahab told Jezebel that Naboth refused to sell him his vineyard so she got him the vineyard by coming up with a plan and sending it out…