TRUTH TELLERS ARE USUALLY HATED BY THOSE IN LEADERSHIP  Often those who expose the truth about others who are in sin are hated by many who have protected and covered for the sinful people being exposed because those who are in charge are benefiting from them. You see it in families, businesses, schools, and even churches and ministries. Money, power or sex is often at the root of it.  Jesus exposed the sins of the Pharisees and scribes and many in leadership hated Him for it and ultimately killed him. Those who are labeled the black sheep or scapegoats in a family are hated by their parents or siblings because they won’t just look the other way and cover for their sinful parents or siblings.  This same principle applies to those in businesses, schools, churches and ministries. The fact that most people are living compromised lives full of sin explains why those who choose to live godly, righteous lives like Christ are hated so much by most.  Matthew 10:21-23 NKJV ““Now brother will deliver up brother to death, and a father his child; and children will rise up against parents and cause them to be put to death. And you…

IF YOU HAVE A MORAL COMPASS YOU COULD BE THE FAMILY SCAPEGOAT / BLACKSHEEP In a family situation the scapegoat carries the sins of their own family (which typically have many members in the family who are unhealthy, toxic and/or dysfunctional). For instance, Dad is an alcoholic, sex addict, aggressor, prideful while Mom is his enabler. Or Mom is angry, controlling, belittling, prideful, demanding and Dad is her enabler. The family is expected to deny the truth of their parent’s dysfunction and hide it from the public (keep their dirty laundry buried in the backyard). So what the toxic family members will do is to label one of their children the “problem child” and blame everything that is wrong with their family on that child. This scapegoated child can do no right in their eyes. The scapegoated child typically has a moral compass and is a truth teller that won’t look the other way and ignore sin, but have a very good heart. The parent who is most demanding will usually make another child the “golden child” or the hero of the family who can do no wrong who will look the other way with their toxic parents lives. Since…

JEZEBELS’ MINDS ARE BLOWING AS THEY ARE LOSING CONTROL OVER OTHERS Jezebels (both women and men) have been used to throwing fits and getting angry and being bullies in order to get what they want throughout society and life. When people don’t give them what they want they face their wrath and anger and non-stop arguing and demands so most learn to give them what they want to try to keep the peace. The Jezebels who are at the highest level of deceit will act godly and demure all the while plotting behind the scenes to get their way, controlling others and to destroy godly people and ministries. God said to stop tolerating Jezebel and their demons and minions / flying monkeys. So now more than ever people are telling the Jezebels no and exposing their evil and sinful ways. The Jezebels minds are blowing as they can’t stand to be told no after getting their way for most of their lives. They are manifesting now more than ever. You can see it in all facets of life with the Jezebels in families, spouses, school, work, churches, governments, politics. Godly wives are no longer submitting to sinful husbands. Godly husbands…

SATAN IS SENDING TIME WASTERS TO YOU   There are many of God’s remnant warriors and chosen ones who are dealing with people sent on assignment from Satan to waste your time. Some are giving false words and prophecies from the Lord intentionally to get you off track from your assignment from God. Some have targeted those who have waited for their kingdom spouse and want to be married to try to waste their time in thinking they were sent by the Lord when they were really sent by Satan to try and marry you to stop your calling from God and hurt you deeply and cause you to be discouraged and depressed.  Some have been drawing you in financially to appear to bless you all the while they are slowly causing you to compromise your walk with the Lord. Some are seducing you sexually to compromise. Some acted like they were your best friend or worked with you when all the while they were plotting your destruction and have lied to many to destroy your reputation.  Some act like they want your help but only want your sympathy and just want delivered from the consequences of their sin without…

DO YOU HAVE THE SAME BOUNDARIES THAT JESUS HAD? People who are living compromised lives of sin and obeying demons speaking to their thoughts will try to force others to submit and obey them. These people are in all walks of life including church leaders who are not delivered. When you obey Jesus and the Bible you will have to tell people no and they will manifest by getting angry at you, threatening and intimidating you and lying about you to others. Below are some of the ways Jesus had to set boundaries: Jesus said no to inappropriate behavior - He didn’t heal those who didn’t have the faith to trust Him (Matthew 13:58) - He didn’t submit to the prideful religious leaders trying to bait him (Matt 21:23-27 and Matt 22:15-22) - He said no to Peter and the disciples who wanted him to be a political king or a military leader Jesus spoke the hard truth in love - He told the rich young ruler that he couldn’t help him until he gave away all of his money that was controlling him (Matt 19:16-21) Jesus offered grace and truth according to the individuals need - To the woman…

BEELZEBUB COULD BE CAUSING YOUR STRUGGLE WITH FOOD Often people who have been hurt and wounded growing up struggle with overeating or eating food that is unhealthy. They turn to eating food as a comfort to their feelings of emotional wounds. They often also struggle with being tormented in their minds and thoughts by the spirit of Beelzebub.  Beelzebub, is first mentioned in the Bible in 2 Kings as Baal-Zebul. II Kings 1:2 NKJV “Now Ahaziah fell through the lattice of his upper room in Samaria, and was injured; so he sent messengers and said to them, “Go, inquire of Baal-Zebub, the god of Ekron, whether I shall recover from this injury.”” The name is a combination of the words Baal, which means "Lord", and Zebul, which means "exalted dwelling". The Jews changed the name to "Beelzeboul" after the time of the Philistines, which means "lord of dung.”  What happens when an animal eats their food and then excretes it from their bodies - it becomes dung. Then what attracts to the dung? Flies. The name Beelzebub comes from the Hebrew word Baʽal zĕbhūbh, which literally means "lord of flies". Beelzebub tempts people in the area of food with gluttony…

COMPLAINING GIVES DEMONS LEGAL RIGHTS TO TORMENT YOU Demons want you to complain as much as possible to as many who will let you. They want you to go on and on about how you have suffered and endured pain in your past because it brings joy to them that you are still feeling negatively affected and have not forgiven those who hurt you and let it go and stay in victim mode. Remember how much the Israelites complained when they were in the desert instead of having a heart of gratitude that they were no longer slaves? They could have walked into the Promised Land in a few days but because of their complaining God caused them to stay in the wilderness and then they all died (except for Joshua and Caleb) in the desert because He was tired of hearing them complain. Could your complaints be keeping you in the desert? Have you ever been around a person who complains about everything? It often depresses you as you listen to them talk negatively about people who often have been out of their lives for years. Eventually it wears on you as it’s hard to stay positive anymore or…

HOW NARCISSISTS MANIPULATE CHILDREN Following are how narcissists manipulate their children: Assigned Roles: Each child is given a specific role. The more empathetic child often becomes the scapegoat, blamed for everything that is negative, and they usually have a moral compass  Golden Child: One child often is treated like royalty, never disciplined, and groomed to become a future narcissist, believing they are special and loved. But this "love" is fake. Constant Supply: These children are manipulated to constantly meet the narcissist's needs, becoming a source of toxic energy. Distorted View of Love: Children learn to believe that "love" means being overly praised and then devalued. As adults, they often seek out narcissistic partners because they mistake this pattern for real love. Narcissists cannot love anyone so they control and manipulate them. They discourage independence, freedom and individuality.  Foggy Reality: Narcissists create a confusing reality through fear, obligations, and guilt. Ask any child of a narcissist, and they'll tell you these tactics were a big part of their relationship Parental Alienation: Narcissists often alienate the children from the kind parent. This can create deep confusion and a lasting impact, as a parent struggling for years to overcome this. Role Reversal: Children…

SIGNS YOU ARE DEALING WITH A FAMILY GENERATIONAL CURSE I’ve helped thousands of Christians around the world to get their soul wounds healed and be delivered from demons and most of them struggled with the same issues that their parents and grandparents struggled with. In Deuteronomy chapter 28 it talks about blessings for obedience to the Bible and curses for disobedience.  Below are some of the most common family generational curses that I have seen in the people I have taken through sessions: Mental / Emotional issues Prone to accidents (drop things, break things, car accidents, falls) Addictions to alcohol / drugs / food / sex Chronic hereditary sicknesses (doctors cannot find any normal cause) Divorce and family breakdowns (children alienated from parents and siblings) Financial problems (long term poverty) Unnatural deaths / dying young / suicides  Female issues (barrenness / miscarriages / menstruation problems) We all need to be the generational curse breaker in our families. When we don’t do our part to forgive all who ever hurt us we will be tormented (Matt 18:21-35). When we walk in pride God is against us. Proverbs 16:5  "The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They…

COULD YOUR SPOUSE’S SIN CAUSE YOU TO DIE EARLY? In Acts 5:1-11 Sapphira was married to Ananias.  Ananias came up with a plan and told his wife Sapphira to lie to Peter about how much they received for selling their property. They kept back some of it but told Peter that it was the full price. The Holy Spirit told Peter that Ananias lied to him and then Ananias died.  Sapphira didn’t know he died and 3 hours later Peter asked her if the money he received from Ananias was the total amount and she lied and said yes. She immediately lost her life.  I personally knew a couple who attended my church and the husband was emotionally abusive to his kids and his wife. She chose to stay in the marriage because those at church told her that God hated divorce and eventually she developed a brain tumor due to the constant verbal abuse from her husband. She died at age 49. He then got remarried to a healthy woman who shortly began to get sick after a year again due to his emotional abuse. He was sexually abused by his father and had demons and now he has…