There is more of a struggle today than ever before within the church between couples who are in relationship where there is strife to the point of emotional abuse between husband and wife (both men against women and women against men). Most in the church know of the Bible scripture below concerning that wives should submit to their husbands and that husbands should love their wives: Ephesians 5:22-27 NKJV Marriage—Christ and the Church "22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish." When a godly husband chooses to submit himself…

Most relationships have one person who takes on the same characteristics of Jezebel and the other person like Ahab in 1st and 2nd Kings. People get the Jezebel spirit because of being hurt growing up by their mom or dad or step parent or others or through sexual violations (viewing porn, touched, molested or raped). This causes them to hear demons and they want their own way and to control their spouse and others. They then look for a partner to marry who they can control who is willing to compromise and tolerate their ungodly demands who will give in to them, which is the Ahab spirit. People get the Ahab spirit because they have a parent who gives in and compromises and aligns themselves with that spirit.  Ahabs have a comfort level with their spouse demanding their way in order to help get them what they want.  Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard but when he asked him to sell him his vineyard so he could turn it into a garden Naboth refused.  So Ahab told Jezebel that Naboth refused to sell him his vineyard so she got him the vineyard by coming up with a plan and sending it out…

I will start by premising this blog by stating that if you are trying to resolve a conflict with a person who has not been healed of their soul wounds and delivered from their demons then you will simply frustrate yourself because the other party will usually not be able to rationally discuss much of anything and cause the point of contention to not be addressed while they take you around in circles.  They will often manifest into anger and accusatory tones and blame you for not agreeing with them.  Thus it is impossible to resolve conflict in a healthy way with anyone who is not healed from their past wounds and delivered from demons (which is most all people in the world and many in church).   Sorry to have to make that disclaimer but it is the truth.  People who largely hear demonic thoughts in their minds (most all people) will have personal agendas, selfish motives and ungodly intentions of their hearts and not play by healthy rules.  They have been used to escalating themselves in anger and talking on and on in order to wear people down to give them what they demand. Most people learn over time to…

There are millions of people around the world who are married to people who emotionally abuse them (and worse) every day.  Some much worse than others but abuse is abuse, even if it is subtle.  The more subtle forms of abuse involve not allowing your spouse to make any decisions throughout the marriage, raising one’s voice or having tones, talking down and belittling – especially in front of other people, making fun of your spouse at their expense, making your spouse’s life miserable through not agreeing to many if any of their desires, not allowing your spouse to pursue their own interests in life, lying, not allowing your spouse to have intimacy with you as punishment for them not doing exactly what you demand, etc.  The more egregious forms of abuse would include yelling, screaming, demanding, acting physically aggressive or being sexually selfish and mocking your spouse, throwing things, breaking things, exploding in rage, etc. About half of the world struggles with a more controlling, selfish, prideful and sexually selfish and impure,  ungodly behavior while the other half of the world get hurt by them.  Sadly, they find each other in the majority of all marriages.  Jezebel married Ahab and…

I have done thousands of personal inner-healing and deliverance sessions for people since 2015 and am now seeing more and more people from the main stream church who are discovering that they have been dealing with a demonic issue in themselves, their spouse and children due to wounds from their childhood and are motivated to seeking out deliverance.  Like so many who grew up in the church and were taught that “demons cannot affect a Christian”, the truth is getting out that most all who would call themselves a Christians are dealing with demonic strongholds that started when they were hurt by their own father, mother or other people (emotionally, verbally, physically and sexually). So many are searching to get fixed from their past soul wounds so they can enjoy peace in their life and those who have sought out traditional counselors, psychologists, psychiatrists, the medical community and pastors are simply not seeing the positive results they want in peace and good health.  So more and more of them are seeking out inner healing and deliverance ministers who help them see major positive changes in their lives through taking them through having them forgive those who have hurt them and…

It has been amazing to watch as the ungodly people in the world take control over anyone who chooses to try and live a godly life simply by threatening, yelling, complaining, and mocking them.  Sadly many in the church are living as corruptly and sexually impure as those outside the church as they hear the voices of demons which tell them they are hypocrites in their thoughts if they dare try to stand up for the rights of those who are choosing to serve Christ with their hearts and minds.  There are so many lukewarm Christians in the world. We know that God’s remnant of people who are truly choosing to live a bold and godly life like Christ is a small percentage of those who attend church, with real fruit of the spirit being evident in their lives. Galatians 5:22-23 NKJV “22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.” So many pastors have watered-down their messages to their congregants out of fear of the ungodly government edicts and desiring to keep their 501 (c)(3)’s intact hoping their tithers continue to make their donations.  No one wants to offend anyone with the…

Joshua 24:14-15 NKJV 14 “Now therefore, fear the Lord, serve Him in sincerity and in truth, and put away the gods which your fathers served on the other side of the River and in Egypt. Serve the Lord! 15 And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” The writing is on the wall when it comes to seeing how society in general and the mainstream church has become more aligned with Satan in compromising living a godly and righteous life and looking the other way and tolerating sin and going along with the crowd instead of pursuing Jesus.  So many people are serving their own fleshly desires,  living sexually impure and ungodly lifestyles, focused on the love of money.  The church is telling everyone that God’s grace will allow anyone to get into heaven if they have asked Jesus to come into their hearts without choosing to live a life aligned with Christ.  But the Bible is very clear that few will be let in to…

Have you ever thought about why you do what you do?  Why do so many people who attend church treat their spouse and children and others who don’t do what they want, badly?  Why do people sin sexually?  Why do some people drink a lot of alcohol or smoke or overeat?  Why do people trigger into angry and violent people?  What are some people calm, loving and honest while others rage, hate and lie?  Why are some people fearful and anxious while others are always at peace? We behave the way we do because of what happened to us when we grew up.  If we were born prematurely we will usually be afraid to be alone later in life.  If our mom had a scary birth process or was yelled at a lot by her husband or the father of the child, then the child will usually have fear and anxiety.  If we were shown porn or touched sexually when we were a child we will struggle with sexual purity later in life. If we felt rejected by a parent when we grew up then we will feel rejected easily by our friends or spouse if they say something or…

Satan can first hurt us as soon as we are conceived when we are in our mother’s womb if our mom or dad didn’t want us, they wanted a child of the opposite sex, if a mom suffered much trauma during her pregnancy which caused fear or rejection, a witch or warlock cursed us in the womb, falls, verbal abuse between our mom and dad or anyone, premature births, C-sections and any challenging deliveries that would cause fear to our mothers which then would be inherited by their child.  Then once the child is born the enemy attempts to hurt it as much as he can from as many people as possible and situations. So we can get hurt in a myriad of ways in our lives such as: Having negative words spoken to us by anyone (which we ALL have experienced) Having a parent who was religious who spoke condemnation and was harsh without love Having a parent who controlled you in an unhealthy way Emotional abuse Physical abuse Sexual abuse including viewing porn, being touched, molested, raped, incest Growing up without a father or mother Religious abuse or control Satanic Ritual Abuse Bullying Enduring a Jezebel spirit attack…

Jesus knew what being persecuted by the religious elect was like as he had many Pharisees and Scribes who were filled with pride and arrogance who were jealous of His knowledge and hated Him when he pointed out their hypocrisy.  The same demonic religious spirits that were speaking through the Pharisees and Scribes of Jesus’ day are still speaking today.  There are many who are leaders in today’s church who are filled with pride (the Leviathan spirit – Job 41) and piousness instead of the humble heart of Jesus, and they desire to kiss up to the head pastors, elders, etc. in order to position themselves for people to admire in order to show off their gifts of prophecy, musical talents, and teaching in order to make themselves look good all the while making up lies and gossiping about other people in the church to ultimately hurt them.  While it is never enjoyable to have people believe lies and half truths about you…you can take solace that Jesus and Paul and the other disciples went through the same thing.  And suffering for doing good is far better than when the Lord corrects those who are doing evil (as they will…