HOW TO KNOW WHO THE REAL JEZEBEL / NARCISSIST WAS IN A FAILED RELATIONSHIP It can be extremely challenging to know who the real Jezebel / Narcissist was in a couple whose relationship failed because Jezebels are typically very charismatic and friendly to those other than their spouse.  People who operate in the Jezebel spirit will talk a lot and try to get people to believe that they were the innocent victim and those that they hurt and abused were the real abusers. They want you to agree with them and support their lies. They are obsessive and compulsive. Professional grade actors and actresses. They are fake. Jezebels usually smile a lot and act charming yet walk in a false humility and are extremely friendly to everyone except those they dated or were married to or who won’t obey them. Their true victims were always kind, gentle, genuine,  humble, compassionate and more silent during the relationship, often for many years until they finally had the courage to escape from the abuse. So after the separation the true victim still finds it hard to talk about all the abuse that they endured during the relationship and often feels sad and embarrassed…

THE RELIGIOUS SPIRIT WILL FORCE YOU TO STAY MARRIED TO YOUR ABUSER We all want marriages to be healthy and loving and kind but both the husband and wife have a freewill to choose to love each other in a godly way or hurt the other. If a person refuses to get healed from their soul wounds, forgive those who hurt them and repent for pride and sin then they will manifest in a demonic way on their spouse to control and manipulate them emotionally. People in the church who operate out of a religious spirit will often force those being emotionally abused to stay married to their abuser which will cause them to have no peace and ultimately stop their assignment from the Lord. The religious people will demean and shame them to stay in their abusive marriages with their demonic spouse who will act like they are godly but have no fruit of the spirit and walk in their flesh. God never wants anyone to stay in an emotionally, physically or sexually abusive marriage. It can literally cause you to get sick and die early. Most of the religious people will guilt those who are being abused to…

JEZEBEL’S FALSE ACCUSATIONS WILL INCREASE GOD’S BLESSINGS & ANOINTING OVER YOU In 1 Kings 21 Ahab wanted to buy Naboth’s vineyard to turn it into a vegetable garden but Naboth said no as he was going to give it to his own children. So Ahab told his wife Jezebel and she came up with a plan to invite Naboth to a banquet and then had 2 scoundrels accuse Naboth of blaspheming God and King Ahab when she was the one who actually came against God and killed the prophets of the Lord. Jezebel ultimately killed Naboth and stole his vineyard to give to Ahab her husband. God then told Elijah to confront Ahab for the murder of Naboth and Ahab actually repented and fasted and put on sackcloth but Jezebel refused to repent. So God used Elijah to kill Jezebel’s 450 Baal prophets and then afterwards Jezebel threatened to kill Elijah. God then rescued Elijah and took him to heaven before Jezebel could kill him. Jezebel ultimately lost her life when Jehu came. When you walk in righteousness to the Lord, have forgiven all who hurt you, repented for pride and made sin rare in your life, cast out demons…

PAUL’S THORN IN HIS FLESH WERE PEOPLE SENT BY SATAN TO PERSECUTE HIM Many have been taught that Paul’s thorn in his flesh was a physical pain that God wouldn’t heal him from but the saying of a “thorn in the flesh” is similar to today’s saying of “a pain in the butt.”  In the Old Testament it was commonly said that people who made your life harder were “a thorn in my eye or side.” Paul’s thorn was a demonic spirit or messenger sent by Satan in people who were against Paul which continually stirred up persecution against him. This is also verified by three Old Testament references (Num. 33:55; Joshua 23:13 and Judges 2:3), where people coming against others spoken of as being “thorns in your sides” and “thorns in your eyes.” So when someone says or does something to cause you struggles, or to make your life harder, or if you are ministering to people to help them but someone is coming against you by telling lies about you told by those with demons or the Jezebel spirit then they are a “pain in your butt” or “thorn in your flesh”. So God wouldn’t remove the people…

UNDERSTANDING MONITORING SPIRITS & HOW TO DEFEAT THEM Monitoring spirits / demons will watch what you do and what you say and then report the information they observe back to people with evil intentions, witches or warlocks or various demonic networks so they can try to hinder you in your life, marriage, relationships and especially ministry.  The monitoring spirits are demons that you cannot see with your eyes but can also be in insects or animals like birds, rats, cats, or dogs, or could be actual people who astral project to spy on you or in people disguised to be your friend but only want to probe you for information. Monitoring spirits will especially watch those who are making an impact for God’s kingdom to try and come against them through causing: Fear & Doubt Fatigue & Insomnia Sickness for no reason or cause Recurring negative patterns / frustrations Experiencing strange delays / obstacles Distractions / Feeling watched or dreams & visions of being watched The spiritually weakest in your family are easy targets to be attacked They study our weaknesses, struggles and know our past and present and work to keep us in those destructive cycles.  They will know…

SATAN SENDS PEOPLE TO CAUSE YOU TO QUESTION & DOUBT YOURSELF Satan wants you to question who you are and have doubts about your calling and purpose. He will have people falsely accuse you to cause you to have fear and get you to stop God’s plan for your life. He wants you to worry what others think instead of staying focused on the ministry He has called you to accomplish.  He will remind you of all the bad things that you used to do and try to convince you that you are still that person. Nehemiah was obeying God and rebuilding the wall to protect the Jews in Jerusalem and his enemies falsely accused him of wanting to become king to try to stop him from finishing the wall. ‭‭Nehemiah‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬-‭9‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ “Now it happened when Sanballat, Tobiah, Geshem the Arab, and the rest of our enemies heard that I had rebuilt the wall, and that there were no breaks left in it (though at that time I had not hung the doors in the gates), that Sanballat and Geshem sent to me, saying, “Come, let us meet together among the villages in the plain of Ono.” But they…

THE MOST CUNNING & EVIL WITCHES OPERATE IN THE CHURCH Witches who are in the church are very hard to discern because they don’t wear black pointy hats or have green skin. They will dress normal and act loving to deceive the majority of church people as long as they can so it is very hard to discern inside their hearts that they have evil intentions. They are extremely good at acting godly, loving, doing things for you, being nice and knowing many Bible scriptures. They act like they are humble but it is a false humility as they are very prideful and jealous of truly anointed people. They will sing and worship often in an exaggerated way to draw attention and make people think they are super anointed and righteous but it is just an act as their intentions of their heart are evil and selfish and wicked. They are obsessed to be in leadership - often on intercessory prayer teams and deliverance ministry or have their own ministry so they can know details of people’s lives so they can gossip, betray and hurt them. They talk a lot about themselves and how great they are and ultimately want…

THE SUFFERING THAT YOU ENDURED WILL HELP LEAD OTHERS OUT OF THEIR SUFFERING No one likes to suffer but the Lord uses it to ultimately strengthen and anoint you to help lead others later out of their suffering. Personal experience with pain is hard but what is learned from it is extremely valuable in helping others overcome their suffering. Joseph suffered at the hands of his jealous older brothers who wanted to kill him but later sold him into slavery to some Egyptians. He worked through that rejection and betrayal and developed a strong character and integrity and ultimately received favor and complete trust from his master Potiphar. Unfortunately he suffered again when Potiphar’s wife tried having sex with him but he did the right thing and ran from her only to have her lie about him and accused him of wanting sex with her. He was unjustly thrown into prison and suffered for at least 2 years and some say it was up to 13 years. He could have been very bitter and angry with God for doing the right thing and yet being falsely accused and imprisoned but stayed in faith. Finally he was brought before the Pharoah…

REASONS GOD HASN’T PHYSICALLY HEALED YOU YET Everyone wants to have good health so we need to look in the mirror and ask Jesus to show us what is the spiritual root causing us sickness or pain and what we need to do to be healed and walk in good health. Areas to consider: Unforgiveness (Matthew 18:21-35) - Jesus gave the parable of a man who refused to forgive another man who owed him a little after he was forgiven a lot of money. Jesus said that man was turned over to the tormentors and the same thing would happen to us if we didn’t forgive everyone from our hearts. What torments people? Demons. They can cause both mental torment and physical sickness. Pride - Naaman had leprosy and didn’t want to humble himself to obey Elisha to be healed by dipping 7 times in the dirty Jordan River  (2 Kings 5). He wanted Elisha to wave his hand over his leprosy to get healed. He relented and humbled himself and dipped 7 times in the Jordan River and was healed. Pride got Lucifer kicked out of heaven. Anger / Jealousy (1 Samuel 16:14 Saul was tormented by a demon…

ARE YOU HEARING FROM THE HOLY SPIRIT OR DEMONIC SPIRITS? Many who have the Holy Spirit are taught that they can no longer be tormented or oppressed by demonic spirits because they have been told that the Holy Spirit can’t dwell with demonic spirits. The truth is that we must get the Holy Spirit in order to help us get delivered from all the demonic spirits who attached to our souls (mind, will and emotions) due to our hurts and wounds, unforgiveness, pride, lust, fear and sin in our lives. The Holy Spirit will convict us of our sin and help lead us to overcoming. In Matthew 18:21-35 Jesus explained if we refuse to forgive others for sinning against us from our hearts then we will be turned over to the tormentors. Demons torment Christians who have not forgiven all from their hearts. They oppress Christians by giving them thousands of thoughts a day trying to cause them to justify and excuse sin in their lives which allows them to stay in their flesh instead of true repentance like Jesus taught so they can walk in the fruit of the spirit. Thus many who have the Holy Spirit in their…