HOW TO KNOW WHO THE REAL JEZEBEL / NARCISSIST WAS IN A FAILED RELATIONSHIP It can be extremely challenging to know who the real Jezebel / Narcissist was in a couple whose relationship failed because Jezebels are typically very charismatic and friendly to those other than their spouse.  People who operate in the Jezebel spirit will talk a lot and try to get people to believe that they were the innocent victim and those that they hurt and abused were the real abusers. They want you to agree with them and support their lies. They are obsessive and compulsive. Professional grade actors and actresses. They are fake. Jezebels usually smile a lot and act charming yet walk in a false humility and are extremely friendly to everyone except those they dated or were married to or who won’t obey them. Their true victims were always kind, gentle, genuine,  humble, compassionate and more silent during the relationship, often for many years until they finally had the courage to escape from the abuse. So after the separation the true victim still finds it hard to talk about all the abuse that they endured during the relationship and often feels sad and embarrassed…

THE RELIGIOUS SPIRIT WILL FORCE YOU TO STAY MARRIED TO YOUR ABUSER We all want marriages to be healthy and loving and kind but both the husband and wife have a freewill to choose to love each other in a godly way or hurt the other. If a person refuses to get healed from their soul wounds, forgive those who hurt them and repent for pride and sin then they will manifest in a demonic way on their spouse to control and manipulate them emotionally. People in the church who operate out of a religious spirit will often force those being emotionally abused to stay married to their abuser which will cause them to have no peace and ultimately stop their assignment from the Lord. The religious people will demean and shame them to stay in their abusive marriages with their demonic spouse who will act like they are godly but have no fruit of the spirit and walk in their flesh. God never wants anyone to stay in an emotionally, physically or sexually abusive marriage. It can literally cause you to get sick and die early. Most of the religious people will guilt those who are being abused to…