WHEN LUST IS GRATIFIED IT TURNS INTO HATRED When someone is dealing with a sexual lust issue in their lives it will increase over time in its desires to have sexual relations with the people that become their targets. The lustful person especially wants what they cannot have and to hurt the object of their lust. It will cause a person to lust for another person and then they will act out upon them via a controlling sexual encounter which may include a violent sexual act. Once they have finished their sexual conquest with the object of their lust then their lust will often turn to hatred for their target. When their lustful desires get them what they wanted then the hatred develops in their heart for the object of their lust. You often see this happen in marriages between a lustful husband who has anger in his heart for his wife (often due to looking at porn to satisfy his lust which causes them to witness men treating women in horrible ways). The men often treat their wives void of all intimacy. They emotionally abuse them. It usually then develops in having them becoming rough sexually to the point…

GOD HATES EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS Many people want to only think of God as an all loving, look the other way on people’s sins with no negative consequences for people’s actions, who tolerates those who abuse others emotionally while giving us hyper grace to get into heaven after we have died never holding us accountable for our bad behavior and thinking nothing of our fruits of the flesh and never looking at the intentions of our hearts and minds. But God is a God of justice and He knows the truth about all of us. He knows how we treat our spouse and children and other people and it all matters. He knows if we are emotionally, verbally, physically or sexually abusive or perverse. And the Bible says he hates abuse, perversity, lying, and doing evil. There are many people who abuse their spouse their entire marriage and unfortunately use the religious people in the church to protect them by shouting the “God hates divorce” scripture in order to keep them chained to their abuser in marriage while ignoring the scriptures about their own abuse of their spouse which causes many to reluctantly desire to leave them so they…