WHY ANOINTED PEOPLE ARE OFTEN BORN INTO TOXIC FAMILIES

Posted on: Monday, June 1, 2026

Being born into a toxic family can be extremely challenging to endure. When a father or mother or other relatives emotionally hurt a family member or worse it usually causes the abused child to have significant issues as they grow older and many never recover as they are angry, bitter or sad and broken.

But for those who will become anointed to do great things for the Lord it allows that person ultimately to develop powerful perseverance in overcoming those extreme obstacles in life. As they learn how to forgive everyone who hurt them they begin to have their eyes opened spiritually of why their family was so toxic due to their family & relative’s own hurts and wounds when they were growing up and how they never got healed so they developed unforgiveness and bitterness which gave demons legal rights to torment their minds.

By enduring the toxic behaviors and overcoming through forgiveness they became a very strong anointed instrument of the Lord when completing their healing and deliverance process. They are able to minister to thousands of people because they know what it’s like to be hurt and yet forge through the pain and overcome. They have walked in the same shoes as others who have suffered and can then help lead them to their freedom. They became wiser due to their personal experiences of hurt. There is purpose in all of the pain as they become refined in the fire.

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭10‬:‭34‬-‭37‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

““Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.”

Joseph was born into a family where his brothers were jealous and hated him. They wanted to kill him but ultimately sold him into slavery where he was taken to Egypt. He chose to forgive his brothers in his heart which developed his perseverance of walking in integrity and honesty and was promoted over all of Potiphar’s household. Then he had to deal with Potiphar’s wife trying to seduce him to have sex with her so he ran from her – yet she falsely accused him of wanting sex with her. So then he was imprisoned wrongly for many years before finally interpreting Pharaoh’s dream and was then promoted and placed into number two position over all of Egypt to provide food for millions during a 7 year draught. Then finally Joseph was reunited with his brothers who were seeking food as they were shocked to realize that Joseph was now elevated into top leadership over all of Egypt. Joseph had forgiven his brothers for their betrayal as they were humbled and was then restored together and was very anointed by the Lord to help others.