YOU HAVE A MORAL COMPASS SO HAVE BEEN LABELED THE SCAPEGOAT / BLACK SHEEP  Today there are many people in the world who have been unknowingly selected to be the scapegoat in their family and in other relationships in life such as work, marriages, ministry, church, etc. In a family situation the scapegoat carries the sins of their own family (which typically have many members in the family who are unhealthy, toxic and/or dysfunctional). For instance, Dad is an alcoholic, sex addict, aggressor, prideful while Mom is his enabler. Or Mom is angry, controlling, belittling, prideful, demanding and Dad is her enabler. The family is expected to deny the truth of their parent’s dysfunction and hide it from the public (keep their dirty laundry buried in the backyard). So what the toxic family members will do is to label one of their children the “problem child” and blame everything that is wrong with their family on that child. This scapegoated child can do no right in their eyes.  The scapegoated child typically has a moral compass and is a truth teller that won’t look the other way and ignore sin, but have a very good heart. The parent who is…

YOUR PAST PAIN HAS QUALIFIED & ANOINTED YOU TO HELP OTHERS   Many who have been greatly hurt in the past have some of the greatest and strongest anointings from God to help others to be healed from the very same pain and trauma. When we have obeyed the Bible and forgiven everyone who hurt us like Jesus did then God anoints us to help others who are going through similar wounds to learn how to forgive and heal. When we choose to forgive those who hurt us then it allows our sins to also be forgiven by God according to Matthew 6:14-15. You are able to understand why those who hurt you did what they did because they were hurt and wounded and had demons that tormented their minds and caused them to hurt you. Then God uses that experience to anoint you to help others to heal from the same pain you endured through forgiveness.  Your past painful experiences literally allow you to minister to others who have been hurt and abused in similar ways. You have a testimony of overcoming to encourage others. You learn not to take offense when others try to hurt you today. You…