Emotional abuse in marriage & relationships is unfortunately more common than people would want to think and is also equally as challenging to decide just how to address it and with whom.  Most times when two people get married for the first time they expect their partners to love on them and to allow them to make decisions that bring the greatest level of satisfaction to them.  They both expect to be able to do whatever they want to do that will bring them the greatest level of enjoyment.  Often times shortly after the wedding (and some times longer)  one of the spouses will usually place demands to make most of the decisions in the marriage and begin to control and manipulate the other spouse who usually has more of a giving heart.  Over time it begins to cause the spouse who is being controlled to feel less valued, dominated and no longer feel loved.  The more demanding spouse wants even more control, will behave very proudly and talk more condescending with disrespect to their mate.  Eventually the controlled spouse will feel sick to their stomachs frequently because of the consistent arguments (usually because after hundreds of arguments over the…

How mature are you spiritually?  Do you complain, strive, argue, worry, get angry, lust after other people, lie about people, walk in pride or have a negative attitude on most things on a regular basis?  If you do then you are still needing some additional spiritual maturity and need to be healed from your past soul wounds so that you can truly forgive those who have hurt you in your past and then command your demons to go.  People who are hard to get along with will have all been hurt and wounded when they grew up and will hear thoughts from their demons which cause them to strive with other people.  They will take an offense frequently over nothing and offend people badly all day long and expect others to take it.  They are impure.  They are not loving and kind. 2 Timothy 2:22-26 NKJV 22 Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. 24 And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, 25 in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God…