Most people struggle in their Christian walks due to remembering all the bad things that ever happened to them because they have not completely forgiven those people who hurt them from their hearts.  They hear up to 50-60,000 thoughts each day of which 80% of the thoughts are negative (demonic) and 95% are repetitive from the day before according to a 2005 study by the National Science Foundation.  When you ask Jesus to show you why people hurt you from his viewpoint then you can see that they were also hurt when they grew up which caused them to hear demonic thoughts and behave in ungodly ways to hurt you.  Then you can more easily forgive them from your heart which then takes away the legal rights for the demons to torment your thoughts and then you can command them to go to the pit and you will have more peace in your life and have more fruit of the spirit which is aligned with Christ. Then you will receive blessings and favor from the Lord, laugh more, not take offense and overcome the obstacles in your way.  You can see more clearly spiritually.  The song “I can see clearly…

I hear from thousands of people each year who have struggled through being emotionally, physically or sexually abused in their relationships, often times for much of their lives (marriages, fathers and mothers, step fathers, church leadership and those who attend, friends, etc.).  Most people who attend church who have been married have been preached to that God hates divorce and so feel like they must stay in a toxic, abusive relationships until death do they part.  Of course God hates divorce – but He also hates abuse which causes the victims to feel sick to their stomachs and often receive diseases and a slow death due to the unhealthy control, feel scared of their spouse and have to walk on egg shells every day while submitting to the demons in their spouse, parents or others.  Does God actually want you to stay submitted to a person whose demons are manifesting on you every day, verbally and emotionally abusing you for hours every day, causing you to feel worthless at best and suicidal at worst, dying slowly inside your body, soul and spirit every day and unable to do anything for the Lord?  Absolutely not.  And abuse does not have to…