HOW TO KNOW WHO IS THE NARCISSIST AND WHO IS THE EMPATH IN A COUPLE It is very hard for the average public to know who is the narcissist and who is the victim / Empath in a relationship. Most people believe anyone who tells them anything - the narcissist knows that most people will believe everything they say and they are professional grade liars.  - Narcissists will tell their false narrative first to as many who will listen and they will post on social media - they want to get their narrative out first in order to gain sympathy from as many as possible. Then they will continue to lie with additional false details to make the narrative cause even more to feel sorry for them as appearing like they are a victim.  - Narcissists will say they are married to a crazy or abusive person and accuse their spouse of being a Narcissist often - Narcissists will tell you how they were a victim and cry many fake tears - Narcissists will act overly nice to as many people as possible - but it is fake nice  - Narcissists must be in charge of everything and everyone -…

YOU HAVE A MORAL COMPASS SO HAVE BEEN LABELED THE SCAPEGOAT / BLACK SHEEP  Today there are many people in the world who have been unknowingly selected to be the scapegoat in their family and in other relationships in life such as work, marriages, ministry, church, etc. In a family situation the scapegoat carries the sins of their own family (which typically have many members in the family who are unhealthy, toxic and/or dysfunctional). For instance, Dad is an alcoholic, sex addict, aggressor, prideful while Mom is his enabler. Or Mom is angry, controlling, belittling, prideful, demanding and Dad is her enabler. The family is expected to deny the truth of their parent’s dysfunction and hide it from the public (keep their dirty laundry buried in the backyard). So what the toxic family members will do is to label one of their children the “problem child” and blame everything that is wrong with their family on that child. This scapegoated child can do no right in their eyes.  The scapegoated child typically has a moral compass and is a truth teller that won’t look the other way and ignore sin, but have a very good heart. The parent who is…