CHURCH LEADERS OFTEN ABUSE THE VICTIMS OF ABUSE Sadly many who are in relationships with people will get hurt and abused. The victim tolerates the abuse over time and eventually either gets beaten down enough that they give up on ever getting freed and die or they muster up enough courage to go to someone at their church or a counselor to try and get help to confront their abuser. Sadly most don’t get proper help because the abuser, who operates in demons, will be very persuasive and convince the pastor or counselor that the main problem is their true victim by acting like they are innocent and having private communication implicating the victim. They buddy up with the counselor and get them to give advice that allows them control over the victim and even blaming the victim. And often the abuser will be more intimidating as the victim is easier to blame and the path of least resistance. Thus often the counseling will make life worse for them because now the abuser is really mad because they dared to get help and expose their abuse. 1 - Pastors and counselors advice will often make a victims situation worse giving…

MANY MINISTER INCORRECTLY FROM THEIR OWN EXPERIENCES & PERSPECTIVE Often people minister incorrectly from what they have personally experienced in their own lives. They project their own experience on others whose situations could have some similarities or not be anything alike. For instance, if a pastor has never been emotionally abused by his wife then when he counsels a man who has endured years of abuse from a wife struggling with the Jezebel spirit then the pastor cannot understand what that would be like. So his counsel could be to “Just love her like Christ until she changes” or “Pray in tongues every day for 30 minutes” or “Fast for a week” or “do what she wants you to do” of which nothing works to change the man’s wife to behave in a loving and godly way because Jezebel will not leave the woman by doing those things due to legal rights to stay (unforgiveness, pride, sin) and the woman’s freewill. So the pastor gives counsel that is not wise and it’s due to him not having any experience with dealing with Jezebel in his own wife or with anyone else who operates in that spirit. Most pastors, counselors, psychologists…