IF THE CHURCH ADVISES YOU TO SUBMIT TO AN ABUSIVE SPOUSE ASK GOD WHAT HE ADVISES Many pastors and church leaders and church people use the “God hates divorce” partial verse to cause an abused spouse to feel that they must stay with their abuser at all costs but what would God advise? God would want the abuser to get their childhood wounds healed, have them forgive those who hurt them when they were young and then to have them repent for their pride and sin and pursue getting deliverance from their demons which caused them to emotionally abuse and worse which caused the victim to reach out for help. The simple truth is that God never wants anyone to be abused, nor tolerate it. And God is not pleased with anyone who abuses their spouse.  Malachi 2:14-16 NKJV “Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the Lord has been witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your wife by covenant. But did He not make them one, Having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your…

NO COWARDS, SEXUALLY IMMORAL OR LIARS WILL BE IN HEAVEN Revelation 21:8 “But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Coward  The Bible defines a coward as someone who lacks the courage to do what is right, good, or helpful in a time of need due to fear of consequences.  Gideon is often considered the poster boy for fear and cowardice. When God first commanded him to rescue the Israelites from the Midianites, Gideon was hiding in a winepress to escape his enemies (Judges 6:11). Throughout his entire story, Gideon demonstrated fear, anxiety, and doubt. He constantly tested God by asking him to perform signs. Finally he allowed God to change him and eventually became a mighty man of valor and was able to defeat their enemies. He overcame his fear and cowardice.  Ahab in 1 and 2 Kings did not overcome his cowardice towards Jezebel his wife as the Bible says he did more evil in the sight of the Lord than all the kings prior because Jezebel stirred him up.  Abominable means detestable to God.…

NARCISSISTS BELIEVE THE LIES THEY TELL DUE TO THE VOICES IN THEIR HEAD Narcissists are professional grade actors and actresses and lie all the time even about things they don’t need to lie about that are insignificant. Their behavior is very secretive as they love the feeling that they know things that others are not aware of as it causes them to feel like they have one up on others. Like a secret agent…007.  They have a very dark side of them that is evil, sinful and sexually perverse and they love to act like they are good or godly so people will praise and respect them.  They hear demons telling them to do and say things causing them to believe they are the perpetual victim in relationships and they are justified in taking advantage of others. The demons will give them false narratives to repeat over and over again to get others to believe it to be the truth because when someone states something most people will tend to believe it to be true. So when the Narcissist repeats their false narrative again and again those who listen to them will believe what they say is the truth. Narcissists…

INNER HEALING & DELIVERANCE SAVES YOU THOUSANDS OF $ EACH YEAR When people get their soul wounds healed and delivered from demons they save thousands of dollars every year:   -Sin becomes rare in their lives which saves a lot of money  -Addictions for food, drugs, smoking, vaping, alcohol, lust and sex are removed which saves thousands a year -When you are delivered from pride you don’t feel compelled to over spend on your image with houses, cars, TVs, your looks, clothing, etc - You treat your spouse with love and respect, no more porn or affairs or prostitutes or STDs - so you have a healthy sex life of true intimacy  - You are not jealous, selfish, evil, angry, depressed, or suicidal - you have peace which reduces stress and improves health - As you walk in much better health you don’t need to see doctors or stay in hospitals or be reliant on drugs  - When people are delivered they are in their right mind so don’t need money spent on mental health, psychologists, psychiatrists or therapists - People behave in the ways they should so no one needs to go to court, hire attorneys to handle disputes…

NEVER SUBMIT TO UNGODLY SPOUSES / PARENTS AND CHURCH LEADERS God gives all of us a freewill to choose to obey Him or not. People who operate in the Jezebel spirit feel compelled to control others and make them submit to what they want and not what God wants. That’s a form of witchcraft.  We must not make an idol of anyone. In Acts 5:1-11 Sapphira submitted to her ungodly husband Ananias and lied to Peter about how much money they received for selling their property. She was instantly killed by the Lord a few hours after Ananias died when she agreed with her husband to lie. This was after Jesus had resurrected in the New Testament.  We are never to submit to parents who are not submitted to God and try to make you do what they want which would hurt you or cause you to sin. Especially parents who provoke their own children to anger. Athaliah submitted to her evil mother Jezebel and was infiltrated by similar demons. After the death of Ahaziah, her son, Athaliah usurped the throne and reigned for seven years. She massacred all the members of the royal house of Judah (II Kings 11:1–3),…

RECOVERING FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE INTENT TO INFECT YOU WITH HATRED One of the most hurtful wounds in life that an adult can endure is when you have a relationship or marry a narcissistic / Jezebellic spouse and love them in a very kind and caring way but then the abusive narcissistic spouse abuses you horribly, controls, manipulates, yells, intimidates, humiliates, throws objects at you, threatens you and then goes to all of your mutual friends, family and church people and tells them lies about you to make them hate you and have nothing to do with you, often accusing you of doing exactly what they actually did to you. They are masters of lying.  It is extremely difficult to recover from this type of attack because when you have endured some of the most traumatic, painful emotional abuse or worse from someone and then they lie better than you can tell the truth - and you lose close relationships with many people - then you often develop an intense hatred and anger inside of your heart for your abuser and want to take revenge upon them. Unfortunately that allows demonic spirits to torment you in your mind and body due…

DON’T ARGUE WITH PEOPLE WHO LOVE TO ARGUE  People who love to argue will waste your time, exhaust you, accuse you of what they are doing and project onto you, criticize you, twist the subject multiple times in minutes and never admit when they are wrong (which is often) as they believe everything they say and do is right. They will steal your peace, cause you to feel stressed and can even develop into sicknesses. All kinds of evil happens with strife and demons will cause stress.  2 Timothy 2:23-26  “But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will.” Ephesians 6:4 NKJV “And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.” So what should you do if you are around…

WARNING DREAMS ARE PREPARING YOU FOR SIGNIFICANT CHANGES COMING Often times the Lord will send a message through a dream to a person who would be shocked to know of some significant changes that are coming in their life. Some of the changes may be good but many may be hardships for the person to receive and may be a temporary setback. That’s why when the Lord floats a thought or dream to you about something that may be tough for you to receive it is to prepare you to endure the situation when it actually manifests so you aren’t suddenly shocked and given over to fear. It will give you a sense of peace knowing you were aware of it. Remember the dreams that Joseph had * Grain dream 
When Joseph was around 17 years old, he dreamed about gathering grain with his brothers in a field. In his dream, Joseph's bundle of grain was tall, while his brothers' bundles were bowed down to his. When Joseph told his brothers about the dream, they were angry and jealous with him. * Sun, moon, and stars dream 
In his second dream, Joseph saw the sun, moon, and 11 stars bowing…

BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ARE HATED BY WOMEN & LUSTED AFTER BY MEN Women who are physically attractive are hated  by other women who are jealous of them and lusted after by men until the men’s advances are rejected and then are also hated on by men. Sadly there is a very real curse that most women endure when they are beautiful.  Many women get dirty looks by other jealous insecure women in public, at the workplace, church, the gym, grocery store and can feel the hatred for them for no reason. They feel ostracized, lied & gossiped about. These beautiful women are especially hated if they have a godly heart as the demons in others can’t stand them and want them to be destroyed. Lucifer used to be beautiful as the leader of worship in heaven but was jealous of God so was kicked out of heaven and is evil and leads other demons to come against those who desire to be godly so those influenced by demons especially hate beautiful women who love God.  In 2 Samuel 13 - David’s son Amnon lusted after his beautiful half sister Tamar and ultimately raped her. Then he hated her and sent her…

WHAT CAUSES SO MANY PEOPLE TO TRIGGER & HOW TO GET HEALED  Triggering means you overreact to something that is really not that significant but you really feel that it is.  Maybe you explode on your spouse if they make a minor decision to do something that you don’t agree with because you feel like they are controlling you which you actually were controlled by a father or mother growing up and couldn’t make your own decisions. Maybe you feel like you can’t trust your spouse and go off on them multiple times a month even though they have never done anything to cause you to feel like you can’t trust them but when you were a teenager your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you and you never could forgive them.  It’s because when you were a child you were hurt and felt like you couldn’t trust, felt unprotected, were controlled, felt angry, hurt, bitter, rage, jealous, rejected, betrayed, etc and then when something today feels like the same thing to you then you will trigger on the person who is causing you to feel the same way. You may hear voices in your head or feel it inside. You…