Everyone who lives on earth will one day meet God and will be told if they will end up going to heaven or hell.  For those who lived a godly life, pure, loving, noble, giving, helping others, and encouraging others to choose Christ in their lives - they will be welcomed into heaven.  But for those who portrayed themselves to the public as a giving and loving person, attended church and maybe was a leader or even pastor, while behaving in deceitful, cunning, behind-the-scenes controlling / manipulative / lying and even abusive ways to their spouse and others, the Lord will tell them to depart from Him because He never knew them. There comes a day in everyone's life when you must look in the mirror and be real.  Who are you? How did you treat your spouse / children and others around you on a day to day basis? Did you act like you were loving and kind to those you "performed" for every day while saying horrible words to your spouse and children every day of your life?  Or were you the same loving and kind person behind closed doors as you were in the public eye and…

So many Christians who attend church regularly strive frequently in their lives.  What does striving mean?  It means they worry about this and that, complain about their circumstances in their health, relationships, financially, etc and take offenses all day long, as well as get into foolish arguments with other people. 2 Timothy 2:23-25 NKJV "23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. 24 And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, 25 in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, 26 and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will." I used to strive like everyone else.  From 2009 to 2014 I endured an extreme season of strife with another person in my life but it taught me things that I now use to help other people to stay in peace during extreme situations.  It was a season in my life that I will never go through again, but gave me an extreme anointing for helping…