Have you ever thought about.....where your thoughts are coming from?  Most people don't.  They simply assume that all their thoughts....are their own thoughts.  When in reality our thoughts come from three places.  Our own, the enemy's and the Holy Spirit or the Lord.  Most people in this world do not hear from the Holy Spirit so their thoughts either come from their own or the enemy's.  But many who attend church and call themselves Christians also hear from the enemy, much more than they would think.  If you are walking in anxiety and fear much of the time in your life, then you are hearing from the enemy on a regular basis.  If you are angry and take an offense easily, then you are hearing the enemy whisper to you.  If you feel rejected constantly, then the enemy is talking to you. Think about it....you hear a thought that goes like this "Your husband does not love you like you deserve.....he is the reason why you don't feel loved....he argues with you all the time.....you deserve someone better....you need to divorce him and find someone who will cherish your heart and treat you like you deserve....your husband is the reason…

The Lord has given man a freewill to choose to love Him and serve Him or to choose to serve and love the enemy.  The enemy will try to come on a person to hurt them through other people and then cause them to blame the Lord instead of the real culprit.  When it comes to relationships, one deals with many factors but it all comes down to who do you want to serve.  The Lord's ways are to be honest, pure, have the highest integrity and operate in a godly manner in all your ways so that He can bless you with the desires of your heart.  But if you willingly choose to hide in lies, deceit and abuse and do not want to change your life, then the Lord allows you to.  Unfortunately choosing to serve the enemy in this manner will usually have detrimental affects on your relationships in general,  specifically with your mate,  and with God. There comes a point in a person's  life where they must look in the mirror at themselves and decide if it is worth living in sin and lying to others while deep inside knowing that God knows the truth.  You…