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When men operate in the Jezebel spirit their wives often get sick and some die early

Over the past few years I have ministered to thousands of people around the world, of which about 85% have been women.   Women who have grown up with deep father wounds who have developed the Jezebel spirit causing them to control, manipulate, deceive and destroy their marriages and taint ministries.  While it is my conclusion that more women reach out for counsel and help than men, it has also been my observation that when i do have a man who reaches out to me who is operating under the Jezebel spirit, that their wives often times are dealing with sickness in their bodies, and some sometimes even die in their 40’s and 50’s.  Why is that?

When men operate in the Jezebel spirit, they (like women) are very controlling and manipulative with their words.  Women are meant to be cherished, loved and treasured by men who were created to be their protectors and knights in shining armor.  When a man verbally tears them down, berates them, every day for months and years, it takes a severe toll on the health of their wives.  Many have kept it a secret for years and sometimes their entire marriages over decades.  Ultimately their immune systems are on overload and they simply cannot survive anymore.

I know of many cases where women who were married to Jezebel men have  developed cancer and died in their 40’s or early 50’s.  Then the men, who appear to be loving and debonair, charismatic and women draw to them, get remarried to another woman.  Then soon after they are married, their new wife begins to get sick as she cannot take the behind the scenes verbal abuse and her body starts to shut down.  Some women have developed diseases where they can only eat certain foods, are exhausted and have other infirmities that they can not get healed from.

So what should a woman do when married to a man who is extremely controlling and manipulative?  Many times she goes to a counselor or pastor for help.  Most pastors and counselors are not trained to spot people who operate in the Jezebel spirit and the person who has Jezebel is a master at twisting the truth, lying, and blaming their spouse for things instead of being honest.  Thus counseling does not work with them as they will tell the counselor what they want to hear, then go home and continue the domination.  Only if the person realizes that they have Jezebel and then decides to command it to go will they ever change.  So what is a wife to do if their husband refuses to get rid of Jezebel once confronted?  They must separate for their own health in order to live in peace and stop the constant assaults.

Once separated they need to have their husbands address their situation with someone who has helped others to get freed from the Jezebel and Leviathan spirits.  Leviathan causes people to behave very pridefully and twists the truth, shifting the blame to their spouse or others that they have relationship  with. If they don’t get away from their husband, their bodies will continue to shut down and they could ultimately die prematurely.

If their husbands refuse to seek help from someone who has an anointing for delivering people from Jezebel, then they have to make a decision to stay married or not.  I am never an advocate of getting a divorce, but if a person is not willing to admit to their abuse and meet with a person who deals with deliverance from Jezebel, then you must decide if it is worth dying to live with them.  It is a very tough situation.  I know personally.  I had to separate from a wife who was extremely controlling, manipulative and deceptive and tried to stop me from helping people in ministry.  I reluctantly chose to separate after the Lord told me to.  But she was not honest in the one counseling session we went to and the pastor who counseled us was oblivious to the Jezebel spirit. After she lied about all the abuse she did to me,  she chose to divorce me because she could no longer control me.  It was her 4th divorce. Ultimately the Lord then brought me thousands of people around the world and they got freed from the Jezebel and Leviathan spirits and saved their marriages and ministries. So it was worth it in the end, like the Lord told me when He asked me to suffer in silence without telling anyone for 6 years until then releasing me and having me separate to be restored to freedom.

It has also been my observance that when a person is married to someone with Jezebel, that they are pushed to the brink of their sanity.  And many cannot stand it and rise up on occasion to defend themselves. They are provoked and provoked, over and over again, and can no longer take it.  Depending on the level of patience in the person who is the victim of the abuse, that person may be so provoked that they retaliate out of trying to just stop the extreme abuse.  They become someone that they aren’t for a brief time during the verbal barrage.

Jezebel affects more women than men due to their hearts being hurt more easily by father wounds, but when men are hurt by fathers who were either absent or extremely abusive, then the women who marry them are put in danger from the constant verbal and emotional abuse that they endure behind closed doors.  It is definitely the main reason for strife in marriage and the number one reason for divorce between couples.  One spouse is extremely controlling over the other.  One spouse has the Jezebel spirit and the other has the Ahab spirit.  When both get set free from those spirits, they can finally live in peace and have no strife.  They can become who they really are in Christ.  Loving, pure, gentle and sweet.  Mighty men and women of valor.  They can finally become who they were created by God to be.  Being restored to freedom is a beautiful thing.

60 Replies to “When men operate in the Jezebel spirit their wives often get sick and some die early”

  • The clashing of Leviathian and Jezebel in families can be exhausting. Sometimes a person feels they want to divorce a family or more. I do see the provoking control belittling berating manipulation when people can’t have their way.
    I am very encouraged reading blogs and my understanding is increasing.
    My husband and I no longer tolerate this in our lives or around our lives.
    However, their is much division stress, because of those spirits in others. “Why can’t people just love and forgive?” So much more to learn on refusing to act or react in the enemies way or ways. Jesus is health, wholeness, completeness, we strive for him not striving with others. Thank you. Have a blessed and gracefully victorious day.

    • I agree to an extent…
      The Lord has given us the complete freedom and until the person agrees himself to be undergone exorcism, any spirit doesn’t get ready to give away the authority over the person.
      Until unless the legal right is removed they don’t go. And living with such a person is a challenge each moment.
      I had reached till the verge of separation and listening to the Lord’s Voice and messages I went back to my husband’s place.
      Still I live to step out any time being thrown out.
      My Lords Spirit is in me or else life would have been hell.
      At present I’m blessed to forgive, to express my feelings and to say bravely that I’m not going to accept any kind of nonsense any more.

  • Yep. Both men and women can have opened the door to, and kept it opened for, this spirit to squat their lives. It takes time, and often much destruction, before it is revealed.

    I’m still hurting deeply when I look back. But our own story is much bigger than a Jezebel presence, and reaches much further than our marriage. Every Jezebel needs an Ahab, they say. We can all happen to be catering to the tyranny of this leeching and controlling spirit at one point or another in our lives. How else are we going to learn to defeat it?

    Sadly, a husband can believe he is loving and serving his wife, even if at times it requires great sacrifice, yet finds himself serving an entity that devours, while the wife and friend he knows is nowhere in sight anymore. This chasm within the home can cause great damage, and generate dynamics that can distract from real core issues, and cause the marriage to shipwreck.

    There is healing and wholeness when we decide to walk into the destiny God has for us individually. If two spouses cannot find a way to team up, if their relationship has been infected to the point of them both being toxic for one another, then it is better to separate. At least to let each other discover the dynamics at play in their own lives from before the marriage, dysfunctions that have been established from early on to survive severe childhood abuse.

    Without understanding and accepting each other’s divine blueprint, without there being a restoration from lifelong dysfunctions rather than scapegoating or acting out rejection and isolation, without a mutual vulnerability and humility, and respect of boundaries, without a commitment to seek and find, there can be little fruit. God can and desires to rebuild and restore to freedom, indeed. But first we need to be able to “name” what is going on. Even if we don’t like what we find.

    It is sad that so many marriages fail because spouses cannot find help and put in the work it takes to conquer the forces against them as a team. Perfection not required, but willing heart necessary, with evidence of fruit. Just talk to one another, and when you become self-aware, find a good counselor together. The enemy is after the image of God in marriages. We are in a story bigger than ourselves.

    Sorry for the long post… Grace and blessings.

    • Amen! God is in the restoration business but we must be willing to admit the truth and look at ourselves in the mirror and if we are operating out of an impure spirit of Jezebel / Leviathan / Ahab then we must repent and change.

      • Julia I pray you have been able to leave that relationship. It is difficult to leave this type of relationship and trauma bonding happens without you even knowing but God promised in Isaiah 41 (AMP) that He would strengthen us and harden us to difficulties – which means He will make able to walk through those hard places in His strength – just trust – lean – run to Him!
        You are God’s Pearl of Great Value and worth fighting for. I will continue to call you out in prayer.

  • ;I really need help can you pray for me to get out of this relationship. No matter what I tried to do to get away from him I’m still drawn back in and stuck with him he’s manipulative and verbally abusive and because I don’t agree with him there’s constant hell in the house. He y e l l s so loud. Now my ears ring 24 hours a day. I am in brief and cannot get out of the relationship please call me stupid retard loser horrible cuss names. No matter how hard I try to read educate myself to get out of my situation I can’t seem to do it and cannot move forward it’s like running up against a brick wall and I have been in a situation for 21 years.

    • You need to get delivered from the spirit of Ahab and he needs to get delivered from Jezebel / Leviathan. You can find my deliverance prayer on my KBN-TV section in my website. The first one from September 2017

    • Julia, look up trauma bonding. It’s a thing. Separate, no contact, heal. I know it’s hard. I know. It doesn’t have to be, let go of the fear and let go of the feelings of unworthiness. Get back your relationship with God. Read your Bible, calm your mind, and know you are worth it. You have to know that you are worth it. God knows you are worth it and you need to draw your strength from Him. If you don’t feel special, let Him make you special. If you don’t feel your worth, find your worth in Him. You are not drawn back in unless you allow yourself to be and with God at your side that is not allowable. Grab hold of redemption and never let go. You are worth it. I promise you that you are worth the good that comes from God.

  • I don’t think I have a spirit of Ahab I’m not passive or non-cofrontational. I try to talk things out with him but he does not have those skills he instead goes onto a rage.

    I have tried to escape 3 times over the years but just keep getting pulled back in. I have no support.

    I can’t seem to get out of poverty to get out of here and cannot handle any stress anymore. For some reason I can’t move forward in anything.

    • Let God do it. You are correct you cant do it. You just believe. Praying for you. There is hope. Jesus will fix it. I know he will.

    • Every Jez NEEDS an ahab to operate most effectively.
      My relationship is ALL kinds of Crazy!
      Me and My Spouse both have really DEEP father traumas.
      Me I watched my Father almost commit suicide with a sawed off shotgun.
      My spouse I’ve tried to get her to talk, BUT I do know her father died of a Cocaine/Opiod overdose!
      My father to died from Freebase cocaine back in 1984.
      2 weeks after his attempted suicide.
      in Our relationship all 3 operate between us.
      They have Our entire lives.
      Be it known, Jez is ALSO Drug use.
      It loves Debaucherous Sex & Drugs together.
      which makes it’s chains 1000x stronger!!!
      Mind You these are Generational Curses and Hereditary Spirits working within Us.
      If We don’t break these chains that bind,
      Our Children then bare Our burden, by then it’s strengthened its hols.
      listen I’m in dire NEED of help to!
      These Spirits literally punched me(or felt like) and gained access to My Home and literally Haunted Our entire Family for months. Until i ost the house ro the Taxman.

  • I am the same way. I don’t think I have an Ahab spirit either. I’m way too outspoken. Perhaps in earlier years when I was completely ignorant and confounded by this life of mine, but I believe I’ve been delivered if that was the case. Of course, I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut because it just causes trouble that never gets resolved, and other people either don’t understand or are flying monkeys. I’ve been separated over and over, and was no contact for the better part of last year, and for several months solid, but poverty forced me back as well. I would be homeless (again) if it weren’t for him coming to get me (which I didn’t ask him to do), but now I’m back where I started. And it’s even more complicated now, because I got into trouble when I was homeless (never have been in this kind of trouble) and I don’t have the means to get myself out of it because I’m on disability, so I’m trapped harder than I was to start with. I don’t understand any of this. I’ve been praying hard for months and months, but I feel I really need a deliverance minister like Nelson Shuman, and I’d do anything I can manage to make it happen. I’m desperate for understanding and deliverance! I long for a future and a hope, and to know I can help my child should he need help from this spirit as well.

  • Wow, just wow. I just came across this site and I am blown away by what I am reading. I married a man who tricked me but God showed me that I chose to ignore the signs. I dreamt that he tricked me and then imprisoned me. (this was after I divorced him). He was so cruel to me for 6 long, painful years. The part about getting sick is what shocks me and yet does not. We got married in October and by December I was severely ill and remained sick for a full year. I went through a healing ministry and got partly better. But even now after I have been completely separated from him and haven’t seen him in 2 1/2 years I still have health issues I am dealing with. I know a lot of it is because of the trauma he put me through. a little over a year ago I went through another emotional trauma because of his lies and trickery and I found out that the whole time we were married he was married to someone else. I want healing, I do feel a large percentage healed, but I want the physical part to catch up.

    • Yes the Jezebel/Leviathan spirit on a man takes a toll on their wife. So glad that you are freed from him and his demons and are now recovering. Praying that you are 100% healed and whole.

  • My husband is in denial that he has Jezebel leviathan spirit he has bipolar also
    I have him on a mineral to balance bipolar. He doesn’t believe he needs deliverance. I will be married 13 years in dec. we e suppose to minister together we have gotten prophecies we have end time heal m deliverance ministry. I’m trying to stay in word it’s been tough he controls I tell him he controls he says I do, he twists n lies at me. I left once n he got me back we’ve gone to counseling pastors don’t know how to deal with Jezebel n he lies n they end up getting us out of church n looking at me as if I’m wrong. My husband is a narcassict. I’ve been sick constantly I don’t know what to do. His first wife died of cancer. I’ve had fibromyalgia but I overcame that my one side of teeth dropped have h pylori stomach issues weight went up 6p pounds from stress had bizarre events hit in head by Alzheimer’s patient has post concussion m I hurt back n arm n twisted foot. I lost s good state job n am a caregiver now. He could never find work we live on his disability n he works four hrs a week caregiving. He is not motivated to look for work. He likes to cook n wash dishes n sometimes vacuums. This is his way of being in s marriage. He looks st woman constantly n sometimes asks if there single m he denies he doesn’t look nor say if there single. What should I do.

  • I was married for 25 years to a man who have all the characteristics of Jezebel/Leviathan spirits. He abused me verbally, psychologically and physically. I was so attached to him and so fearful that i wasn’t able to get away from him. Now i know that i had an Achab spirit. I suffered tremendously through all those years and like you described i became very ill and remained sick for about 10 years. Two times i was about to die, the first time from a pulmonary embolism in 2006 and the second time in 2009 from a heart issue. During those 10 years i developed something called MCI leading to dementia, i was only 43 years old and no family history of dementia. In 2011 one day i was praying and begging the Lord to free me from such marriage and He told me that He was going to free me soon so i can serve Him to accomplish my calling. Two years later my ex husband left telling me that he had found someone else who he was in love with, that other person was a man. I filed for divorce and now I’m living a very peaceful life serving the Lord. I continue being healed by the Lord physically, emotionally and mentally. I praise the Lord for His goodness and mercy!!!

    • So sorry that you had to endure that and so happy that you are now living at peace and able to serve the Lord. So many people are married to people with Jezebel/Leviathan and controlled and hurt deeply. Our goal at RTF is to make people aware, and present the truth, then pray that they choose to get delivered. If they reject the truth then the Lord will provide a way out.

  • I am 34 and my spouse is 48 we have been together for over 13 years and throughout it all he has cheated on me lied to me and pretty much does whatever he wants while i stay home being a homemaker with hardly ever having any privileges of pampering myself or ever getting any credit for anything every time he walks through the door i am hollered at about how nothing i do i right and hpw im worthless and not good for anything and how know one will ever want me because im ugly and homely and look like trailer trash. I can never do anything right for him or for my family i am humiliated in front of my children daily i have to beg like i am his child for money anytime i need to buy something for the children or the household. He tells me that im hurting myself when i hurt from the emotional pain after i find out about another woman he has cheated on me with because i cant let it go. He tells me he will not cheat anymore but he cant stick to his promise but then when he is caught cheating again he tells me its my fault because look at me who wouldn’t want to find something better because i look so homely and run down but yet he doesn’t want to invest any money in me fixing my appearance up he would rather run to a bar and invest money i to boozing a woman up there and running off with her for the night. We also lost a child which would have been my 2nd child when i was 20 but would have beem probably his 10th child he was not supportive throughout any of it instead he was more worried about running off to a bar to find another woman he could go have sex with and tells me to deal with it because thats what hes going to do and it’ll either make. He does no wrong in his eyes and everything is my fault and when i beg him to go see a counselor he tells me absolutely we can setup an appointment to find out what is wrong with me to get me fixed because there is nothing wrong with him. I dont know what to do anymore and im not sure what it will take to fix these issues or if its even fixable but im willing to do anything to fix the issues.

  • I have been tormented for 21 years. I could never figure out what was wrong with my wife. I am attending an Assembly of God and had a Freedom Night. I learned that my wife has the spirit of Jezebel and Liavation to make things worse, I had the spirit of Ahab. With the Grace of God, I got delivered from Ahab. I need help

    • Great to hear!! So now your wife will need to get freed from Jezebel / Leviathan and then you will both have tremendous peace and joy.

  • Wow! Don’t know how to start. My husband is controlling and accuses me for all his setbacks. He told me that I have mermaid spirit and that they planted me in his life to kill him. I got pregnant and found out that I have fibroid. Towards the end of pregnancy I was told my child had hydrocephalus. My husband lost his job 3 months after I gave birth. We began to struggle. No finance. My husband called me one morning and asked me if he married the wrong wife. A month after when we were coming back from church he told me I was hindering him from progressing. Lost my child and now I am pregnant the finances has stopped coming again and I keep having nightmares. I have prayed and have gone to church for deliverance. Anytime I want to get a job something happens and the job slips away. A pastor told my husband that I will not give birth to the child I am carrying that I will die. I need help.

  • Wow!!! I am so blown away from this article!!! This is what happened to me. I was already sick when I got married but, through bad decisions my husband forced on me I just about died, multiple times (even had the vision that people have when they die–umbilical cord of the L-rd hanging out of me). My organs started shutting down, and I lost my job. A lot more bad things happened–take too long to tell. I have gotten breakthrough through deliverance of python (Paula Cross Ministry) repenting of my pride, has gotten me a major breakthrough with my husband!!!! I realize I have some Ahab, and he has some Jezebel and Leviathan. Thank you for this article, your videos, and books you have available!!!!! I can’t wait to get totally free!!!!! The L-rd bless you to overflowing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I just came across this googling can a spirit on a man cause wives sickness’s even death!! It has helped to realize what is going on, I am 67 when we were married 15 years ago I did not have any health issues. My husband 2 other wives died horrible deaths I have heard from health and mental complications!! He is husband and a lady’s man and loves to flirt alot! I am not an Ahab spirit either!! But once married he is different at home than at church or around people. He is never wrong, always on the defence, bad temper, doesn’t think twice after cursing me out. I have learned to let it fly over my head, but my best friend who has watched him all things years how and why I don’t talk back, pure and simple it takes two to argue, I THINK! I was an activity Director when we met, in less than a year I had a massive stroke, then cancer and mastectomy following year. Had head banger seizures, double knee replacements, double shoulder replacements, four back surgeries, with last one with ending up with rids and screw and plates in back. I have had a hernia and now experiencing extreme left hip pain!!! I have thought of suicide, but in up in counseling instead, trying to get help!!! I come to realize now that it is a spirit on him!!! Now what, I am working full 10 to twelve a day 7 days a week at factory, the more I work the less he does, he comes home or is at home parked in front of TV, and very rarely helped at all around the house!! It is my job I am the wife!! I love CLEAN, but working and sleeping and preparing meals, which he is always demanding, because he is starve to death, but then only half his plate, and going to church, my house does not get attention it needs! I was just diagnosed with cancer on right breast a week ago!! This almost feels like a story, a fairy tale, living someone else’s life, that that make sense! I didn’t have an abusive father my pink elephant in my childhood was my mother, she was domineering and overbearing, mentally abused me physically abused me, and yes sexually abused me!!! I am a surrender, I would not have made it this long, I know without Jesus helping me, but I am growing weary, I feel it more than ever!! So what do I do, we have bills and RESPONSILITIES, together we can’t just separate, and that isn’t the answer, somehow we need help to conquer this thing, I have thought about it if I die, he will just marry again, he doesn’t do budgeting or check book baling either, and the same thing will happen to next wife too. People even joke around and tell him he is hard on his wives!! They don’t realize that it is a spirit he carries on him. I am sorry I wrote so much!!!!

  • wow I was married to a man for 17 years that was sent to boarding school and had a mother who had a business and a father that was very busy. He was not only abusive to his mother but to me as well. I had father issues myself and had problems of spiritual adultery wanting to be loved. After I left him I was so angry I joined a gym to get my anger and aggression out. I was mad at him and mad at God for not answering prayers concerning our marriage. I then almost 2 years later had stage 4 non hodgkins lymphoma and was completely healed by God in the chemo process. God also showed me how I was loved, a daughter, and His grace led me into a new relationship with Father God but it wasn’t over. I had been living very close to my husband and kept in touch having dinner with him and visiting every now and then. Seven years after I left my husband he divorced me saying it was so when he died it wouldn’t be a hassle for our kids. I then moved three hours away from the area to attend a church that I felt led by the Lord to go to. In the first few months I was there I was told I had breast cancer. It was on my right side. People say this equates with divorce or loss of a spouse. I have just finished chemo and am now about to go through radio therapy. I was dumbfounded that I had cancer again. Through this second process the Lord has led me down a path of discovering His love in a much deeper way. One afternoon at a conference i was attending he said to me you have false humility. I turned to my friend right away to expose this thing and tell her what the Lord had said. I felt it was associated with an orphan spirit/religious spirit. The Lord also showed me that I had been immature being carnal and not spiritual. I then found that my lack of bonding with my mother when I was born led to having a lack of relationship with Holy Spirit. What and eyeopener that was.I have had councelling and have gone for deliverance going through the family lines on both sides to break off so much. I do have a new relationship with Father God now going into His presence and recieving agape love from HIm that I never pursued before. I now want to go to Him daily to see what He is doing so I can follow HIm for the destiny He has given me. What are your suggestions that can help in this process in any way? Thank you

    • A person has to forgive all who have hurt them in their lives and then repent for their pride. I have a book called Restored to Freedom (Amazon – paperback, Kindle or audible) that has helped thousands. Also people have watched my deliverance sessions every month and have gotten delivered. Here is my latest one from November – https://youtu.be/vxsLgOp0Axc

  • Praise GOD ALMIGHTY. I came upon this site when I was prayer for a way to specifically pray for my daughter and husband. She is sick n broken her spirit n relationship has become drybones and her n my grandchildren are being emotionally abused. Thank u for this information. May FATHER GOD CONTINUE TO BRING U WISDOM N KNOWLEDGE.

  • Wow. I really starting to think my husband may have this spirit. I remember a few years before we got married I was thinking about him and heard a voice in my spirit say do you want to die. I never understood it until today. Jezebel comes against the prophets of God, and 3 years ago someone prayed for us, and the person praying at one point moved his hand to touch the back of mine and when he did, I felt something go from his hand , up my arm over my head/brain. After my husband said goodbye to him and started to leave so I too went to him, and he said to me that the prophet anointing was upon me. My husband didn’t hear it.

    My husband is very controlling, calls me names, yells, pushes me, gets angry for small things and goes on and on etc. .. Tells me what to say and text at times and gets annoyed and angry if I don’t say it like he wants me to. I couldn’t understand how someone so normally anointed could behave so badly towards me. Perhaps this is the answer.

    Since married I have experienced skipped and rapid heart beats, stomach liver and digestion issues.

    I will pray about this and ask the Lord help.

  • I’m so thankful I found this site. I feel like God is peeling back my blinders. I’m in my second abusive marriage. We have been separated for a year. And it’s been so hard. It was hellish having him in our home abusing me and my 5 kids, but now 13 months into this, God has told me no to a divorce even though he continues to lie, manipulate and play pscological games. I’m so tired. Physically I have constant ringing in my ears, half my face tingles and feels numb, my limbs vibrate and I have heart papalpatations. I take a numerous amount if supplements~ herbs etc.. my anxiety is so bad Sometime I have a hard time functioning. I’ve battled with thoughts of suicide for 5he past 3 years. Always thinking about my precious children, who would love and take care of them. Both of our families are extremely toxic. I’ve just begin to hear the lord again in life and its like air. I ache for his presence again. And in my families life. We all need healing and deliverance. My 2 older boys (17 and 19) have been so wounded by this man(their step Father) and now manifest narssaitic behaviors the other codependant enabling behaviors. My oldest(codependant/ahab spirit) just finished leukemia treatments. He has been under tremendous anxiety and depression because of this man. He would pick on and bully them both. I’d try to defend them and he would attack me and get our pastor on board with shutting me down for being a rebellious unsubmissive wife. I was completely shut down by these men. And even believed it was all my fault. Actually still struggle with that thought. God gave me all the signs that this man was not a good man. I was such a mess and so deceived by his charismatic charm that I thought it was lies or not real.. I’m so devastated of it all. I am going to watch more deliverance videos. Asking the lord for help and to free us all from this.

  • I have been married to my husband for 40 years. I often would say that I felt I was living with the devil. He is the sweetest person with others and the best father (that can do no wrong) in the sight of our grown children. I could not understand why he still washes for our adult children and now our grand, folds and irons their clothes,prepare meals and do things that women do. But will not attend to house stuff that needs repairing or even cleaning around the house. So I have to pick up the slack. He is verbally and psychologically abusive. He has confined himself to the house and goes out only when necessary. Yesterday I realized that my husband has a spirit wife. Today when I began revisiting the past and can point out what he had been doing and saying over the 40 years; these behaviours all line up to having a spirit wife. I could not understand why does my husband hate me so much. He does nothing for me, speaks to me only when necessary and tries to belittle me. The Jezebel spirit and the wife/husband spirit operates together. BUT, I love and serve the Lord Jesus, so the spirit has attacked me physically. Hmm!!! I am healing and will continue to walk in the path of righteousness, and Jesus promises never to leave. I spend a lot of time in the Scriptures and I have authored books. Understanding brings with it a measure of peace to cope until the situation has been resolved in Jesus’ name.

  • I am discovering that my husband has a Jezebel spirit within him. My life has declined immensely since I married him 8 years ago. I have developed high blood pressure, PCOS, Hypothyroidism, Acid Reflux, and am pre-Diabetic. I was a health nut prior to my marriage and going to school for nutrition. Every thing I was planning in a positive direction went completely opposite. He has a son who has the same spirit and so does the son’s mother. I feel like they are waiting for me to die. O really need to divorce this man. His entire family is toxic and have treated me horribly for absolutely no reason. They have non-physical but incestuous type relationships with their children. My husband treats his son as if he is his wife. He gets fighting mad if I don’t do everything for his son. Several of my friends have told me that my husband is sabotaging my life. Anytime he thinks I am happy or enjoying anything, he seems to sabotage it. I have been struggling with suicidal thoughts since we married. His son had done so many cruel things to me, yet my husband expects me to love his son, but there is no requirement for how his son is to treat me. When I point out that his son lies and manipulates people, my husband denies it and becomes furious and stops talking to me. I want the peaceful life I had before marriage. My husband is not going to change because he likes this Jezebel spirit. It took me a while to see this, but he is not going to surrender his will to God.

  • My husband of 16 years and i had problems in our early marriage years,twice about women.He is an ordained pastor but at the moment he left the church we were attending,which I think is because of unforgiveness in previous churches,after a time he starts finding fault with things in the churches but he don’t have the stability to address the problem and just leave the churches and then me and my children just have to follow on his decision,and at the church we attend now the same thing happened but me and the children still attend.The thing is this,in the early years he was a bus driver,and one day he forgot his phone at home and that morning messages came through from women,when I confront him he denied having anything to do with them,so we just moved on,on the other occasion it was with my brother in law’s cousin,he also denied it but people were talking and tell me they were together but he said nothing happened,I was away on holiday with the children,we also just moved on,so 5/6 years ago there was stories about him and a sister/my friend and they denied of anything between them.One evening,because I was suspicious of something going on because he spend so much time on his phone,that phone was always on him,so that evening,he was so long on the phone,I wait for the proper time,I went into the room and grabbed the phone,asking him with who is he so busy on his phone cause it was going on for quite a time,by the time the I had the phone in my hand he already locked it with a private pin,after that second insident he always put passwords on his phone and I never borther with his phones cause I trust him,but that evening I just had to do that because start acting strange and all the years I accept him putting me down even in front of people,would talk talk to other people especially women in such a nice way and jolly and so concerning,but with me was a other story till now,that evening I grabbed the phone he was so upset and didn’t talked to me for a while,but eventually I gave his phone back without him showing me who he was talking to all that months,and we just moved on,since that password phones came out I never knew til now what’s on his phones,if I ask him to make a phone call he would ask who I want to phone,put the call through and if it’s someone not on his contacts he would dail the nr himself,know there is stories about him and that sister/my friend again but both are saying there is nothing on,for this how many months now I was so sick,just to year it’s the same thing happening again and both deny it,he is now even cross with my family,he don’t go to church because there is also family attending,he bought him last month a new phone,and just to test him one day I ask him to show me how his phone works because since he have this new phones I don’t and didn’t know how his phones works,he just said he will show me the next day but it never happened,till this day,I don’t even know where is the previous phone because it was still in working condition,I think I asked him for the phone if I’m right but he didn’t respond,the stories about him and my friend just goes on and they swear nothing is going on,her ex boyfriend who is still staying with her also confronted her,they were also in a longtime relationship but he couldn’t come to the point of marriage and his ways,so she end the relationship but he is still staying there and we are still friends cause we came a long way and she also came through alot of stuff,and one day it just came to me that it is my husband that is the problem with the women cause he gives them attention and treat them with respect,and will do things for them they are not use to,all I told everybody is that I take the peace because anyone who is going to hurt me or had hurt me have to give account to God one day,I don’t know what to make of the situation now and how to deal with it,so I just put my trust in the Lord,yesterday i went to a high tea event and I ask the apostle to pray for me and my husband,so he said my husband have a jesebel spirit that is why I looked up what the spirit is all about,can you give me advice please,the apostles wife is a prophetess and she will take me through a healing process of my spirit and soul

  • Goodday,
    Im a prophetess of God and my husband is on a mission to destroy me. He dont want me to Get succes or laugh and be happy. He gets angry on small things and is attacking my firstborn who is not from him too. I believe my Son also is a Prophet. I went to a lawyer to divorce allready but still inside im scared. IT seems that my mom have the same also so im not safe anywhere

  • Can a husband have both Jezebel and Ahab spirits at once? Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde and both are bad.
    I am going through thorough deliverance on myself and ancestry, and also my adult children I offer to them to read. I have taught our children homeschool does that make me controlling? Some in my dysfunctional family say so. I think… if your child is under some kind of instruction, which kind do you want to have “control” of your child? I don’t know it’s confusing. Anyway, my husband though is all the Ahab traits but the Jezebel ones too. When he did try to be the “head” he was dominating and I was like a middle eastern women who can’t even cross the street without asking him or I was “outside of his cover”. So strange. We have been married 30 years and recently he wanted me to sign over all his work benefits to him to control, saying gold IRA is better, however I have no trust in any provision for myself from him now. I married him because he portrayed himself to be similar in beliefs about Spiritual matters, plus he said he was headed to Bible college after getting his Associates. This never happened, he lied and 2 weeks after marriage he was provoking me in the car ride to church and always made me an emotional mess. Years later he still verbally screaming the whole drive to anywhere, especially to church, and then I would be shaking in the car while he would prance into church with hands raised and praising God and chatting no end with people while I had to tend to our three toddlers and infant.

    • Yes people can have both Jezebel and Ahab but will usually default to one or the other more often then equally.

  • Hello

    What if your husband is an unbeliever but he has many spirits not just Jezebel/Leviathan. He will not listen to me or watch any videos that you have on your YouTube channel. He has not spoken to me in about 4 days since I have been praying and spending more time with the Lord. The first 10 years of our marriage I was oblivious to what was going on and allowed him to rule the household (Jezebel) until the Lord led me to narcissistic information online. I have already left him at least 10 times in the past but due to financial issues/spirits coming against me at my jobs I keep returning back to him. Please advice me of what to do next.

    • If he refuses to own his own issues then the demons in him will continue to try to control and hurt you and stop you from doing anything for the Lord. So the best option is to pray and confirm with the Lord if it is time to permanently separate from him and move on. I have known of too many women who stayed with a husband who had demons that slowly killed them as they had many sicknesses and diseases because of the emotional abuse (or worse).

  • So both can have the Jezebel Spirit. So does both have the ahab spirit also? God has set up authority in his kingdom. I am seeing women who says god has put them as a authority over men which is not scripture and when men stand against that they are told that they are being mean and controlling and being a male chauvinist. I have not seen this in the bible where a man has a Jezebel Spirit. Just like I have not seen a woman apostle or pastor and evangelist. If the woman is a non believer or has not been converted she is not going to respect the man as a authority. She is going to find ways to make her self seem like a victim of being mistreated and abused. There are men who abuse physically and verbally. But those men have to learn to be a leader.

    • Men are also Jezebels (narcissists) just like women. It all goes back to when a person gets hurt when younger. Then they hear demons that torment their minds. They must truly forgive those who hurt them from their hearts and then that takes away the legal rights of the enemy and then they can command the demons to go.

  • Thank you for your words. The psychologist I went to about 5 years ago told me that my husband has NPD. I had no idea what it is a t that time. I am married 27 years. There are days that I think I cannot live like that anymore. He is abusive so often. I thought that it is getting better and he started again. I am 52 years old. I pray to God to help me. Your books and your words help me a lot. I don’t have any family here only my two adult kids and my husband. I feel so lost and so alone with this problem.

  • My husband and I got together out of an affair. He was married, I was not. A pastor told me I was blackmailed and if he leaves again, he must know it is over ( he left 4x in 4yrs, only 4 yrs we have been married). I was praying, fasting and seeking God. I always had insight into his behaviors and often knew before he would tell me of his plans and deeper stat of his heart. My spiritual insight, my walk with the Lord infuriated him. Anger set in as I would feel urging of spirit in wee hours of night and I would gain more insight. I had peace….despite it all. My speaking truth and encouragement was seen as controlling and manipulating. I too can see now that I pushed him too much to get into the word. He no longer desires this marriage and I am to blame as I should have just let him do his thing, embrace the fiery darts of harmful words, and trusted God. Instead I would frequently pick him up after I would lay him down as Abraham did Isaac. It was a 911 pickup in my mind. Praying, warring. My question is, do I have a Jezebel spirit as I was constantly trying to get him to draw closer to the Lord, cause in that I KNEW the adultery, lust and lies would go…..but not until. I just desperately wanted to save my marriage. Otherwise……I was just an affair and he didn’t really love me. The gun to his head was pure manipulation to get me “cause he couldn’t live without me” as I was trying to get him to go to his wife, confess his state of heart and take her hand in prayer! I am sick, headaches, stomach pain, cannot sleep. I just want to be in God’s will…..no matter the cost. Help!

    • The Jezebel spirit causes people to control and manipulate others, will always have pride and behave in sexually impure and manipulating ways. You can watch my deliverance videos at YouTube.com/nelsonschuman67 to get freed from any spirits. We must forgive those who hurt us in our pasts, humble ourselves from pride and repent for our sin.

  • Wish I had found a ministry years ago. Needed deliverance, husband has issues, which he never looks too. Very, very traumatic abused childhood. Rejection. When he rejected me very early on, increased all the pain. Years ago it was all left to me to get over hurt. Family background of freemasonry and now know jezabel. I’ll health. Terrible back problems. Was falling apart and no input from him. Was under huge demonic attack. Then god says not right, demonic oppression. No one got someone for deliverance, sent to psychiatric and telling me I had something else which has not worked. Needed to talk over what they reckoned. Lost all now and not capable. Not relevant medical care.
    I needed to die because I have totally died inside. Years ago was in Pentecostal church and never taught about this. Life could have been differed. If only I could die, over it

  • This has helped me understand. Early on my marriage I became aware my husband had/has the jezebel spirit. Very controlling, lies, verbal, emotional, spiritual, physical abuse etc… Knowing it is a spiritual battle I separated (after he became physically abusive in March). I had to let God work in him and help me heal. We would serve in the church together, pray together, worship at home together, so many things. It seems like when I started to grow and understand the word of God more my husband became more and more angry. Jezebel and other demons started to manifest. He could NOT stand us praying together or praying at the same time even if we were in different rooms. He would get so angry and yell and disrespect me over praying (I was quietly praying in my mind). July of this year he filed for the divorce. He says he does not love me, and that he never loved me. Reading all this I believe it is the jezebel spirit that got tired of not being able to control me anymore. I do still love my husband very much as I understand it is not all him, it is a spiritual warfare. However, I have tried to let him know he needs deliverance and he ignores it. He says he is closer go God now. He is closer to God without me. I know God hates divorce. God wants change in our spirit and new hearts, so, I know God is not the one telling him to divorce me rather than to change and learn to respect me as his wife. God does NOT go back on His own word. Sadly, my husband has made up his mind that he does not love me and wants nothing to do with me. I am currently praying and fasting for God to transform my husband to a new creation in Christ. Praying for the enemy not to get away with destroying another marriage. It is hard because this will only happen if the veil is removed from my husbands eyes, only if he repents and renounces to all the evil spirits and generational curses. I am broken and hurting, hoping/praying for a miracle that ONLY God can do. Gods will be done

    • Every person has a freewill to choose to admit the truth about themselves or live a lie and keep their demons. It is sad but people who abuse and live fleshly lives are not on their way to heaven (Galatians 5:16-26)

  • WOW.. Can’t believe all these Posts.. Being Married to a Husband for 20 yrs with a Intense Evil, Vile, Reprobate, Manipulative, Controlling ,Nacissistic, Psycopath. I’m so Traumatized inside I CRY all the time. If I even say that word I CRY. I have a lot of Infirmities. I have COPD, had 3 Spinal Surgeries and going on another one. I can barley walk I’m in so much PAIN all the time. There’s alway’s something wrong with my body. The fighting, the Arguing, the Screeming, name calling, his complaining, and Negative Words just wear me down. This HATE is beyond Demonic. He Speaks and it just sends you to want to Kill the man. I don’t even know how I’m still Alive. I’m a Fighter.. and I have a Calling.. I pry in the Spirit.. But now I’m so out of touch with the lord, and the HS, God. I CRY OUT. all the time. Why God.. I have Repented for Marrying this horrible Demonic Person. He has Stolen my life. I’m a Prophetic person.. I’m supposed to WIN here. All he does is Drive me to Doctor’s Apt.. and that’s it.. He doesn’t live with me.. So I get some sort of PEACE.. I take Communion now every day.. CRY out to the FATHER. to Judge this Un-Repentent man how does NOT care if he goes to HELL.. He HATES my Son. That when the Demons really Manesfest over him. OH.. PLEASE DELIVER ME FROM THIS VILE DEMONIC MAN..

  • I think. I believe my adult son has this towards me. Since I have stopped contact my depression. My sickness. The oppression is GONE. He was/manipulative abusive and sneaky and lies. It’s awful. He hides it wel. My concern is my grabduggers. Going to court to get visiting in. But I cannot be around him. I love him. But I can’t tolerate the spirit any advice

    • Yes you should keep your distance so his demonic spirits can’t negatively affect you. As far as grand children unfortunately they will often use them as pawns and can injure them causing them to be affected. Pray the scales are removed from his eyes to see the truth. Send him my book Freedom From Soul Wounds and Demons (Amazon) anonymously.

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