When you finally break free from someone who has the Jezebel spirit they will turn to gossip & lies to others to control you. Gossip is designed to tell lies and distorted truth about a person in order to turn others against the person. The root cause of gossip is almost always, without fail, jealousy. The more successful, attractive, kind, self-assured, anointed, loving, godly, the more fruit of the spirit in your life, the more that jealous people will gossip in order to get others to believe lies about your character so they can try and stop you from accomplishing God’s plan in your life by getting people to pull away from you and believe you to be bad. Jealousy and control is a large part of the spirit of Jezebel as they want power and prestige as they have strong pride in their lives and can’t stand others to be more anointed, blessed and loved then them.  Most people who hear gossip never go to the person gossiped about to talk with them to understand what the real truth is. They just believe the gossip as truth and many want to believe it as the truth as they hate…

IS THE COUNSEL YOU RECEIVED OF THE LORD OR THE ENEMY? There are about 30,000 pastors and over 120,000 licensed professional counselors, over 80,000 psychologists and over 30,000 psychiatrists in America who have people come to them for advice with which to handle issues in their own personal lives and relationships. Over the past 8 years at Restored to Freedom, we have seen more and more people coming to us who have shared that they were given counsel from their pastors, counselors as well as other professionals that was not good, unwise and actually hurt them worse. Sadly much of the counsel came from the person, pastor or counselor and not from the Lord or Holy Spirit. Many times the counsel given to them were from well-meaning pastors or counselors but they had no understanding how demonic spirits cause people to behave which cause emotionally harmed people more harm by their support of aggressive / abusive spouses or controlling / abusive parents who act like they are godly. Many times the advice was coming from a place of inexperience on the part of the pastor / counselor or sadly through similar demonic tainted like-minded spirits that were similar to the…

JEZEBEL LOVES STRIFE AND HATES PEACE People who operate in the Jezebel spirit love to strive and argue and hate peace. They are used to getting people to give them what they want when they get angry and threaten and intimidate them in fear. They will provoke you until you can no longer stay at peace and then when you say something back to them in retaliation they blame you for not getting along with them. The spirit of Jezebel causes them to rant and rage, talk on and on and on without ceasing for hours. Jezebel causes arguments, fighting, strife and will change the subject multiple times in order to shift the discussion away from the real issues concerning their own bad behavior to something totally irrelevant. People who operate in the spirit of Jezebel have no peace in their minds. Ever. Just torment from their demons every day. They get hit with 12,000 or more thoughts a day of which 80% are negative and 95% the same thoughts they had the day before. So what does the Bible say about striving and arguing? 2 Timothy 2:23-26 NKJV 23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate…

JEZEBEL & AHAB HAD MONEY & CONTROL BUT ELIJAH OVERCAME WITH GOD’S ANOINTING Jezebel and Ahab had money, power, religious worship of idols, control, murdered people who were against them and yet Elijah had God’s anointing and was able to stop the rain, kill the 850 prophets of Baal and Asherah and defeat Jezebel and Ahab. People today who are serving Jezebel and Ahab often have money, control and power and try to stop those who are truly of God. They try to shut them down and lie about them to as many who will listen just like Jezebel did to Naboth. Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard for a vegetable garden so Jezebel lied about Naboth accusing him of blaspheming God and coming against King Ahab and killed him to steal his vineyard to give to Ahab. People today will be accused by Jezebel with lies to manipulate other people to come against those of the Lord who are innocent. 1 Kings 21 NKJV Naboth Is Murdered for His Vineyard 21 And it came to pass after these things that Naboth the Jezreelite had a vineyard which was in Jezreel, next to the palace of Ahab king of Samaria. 2 So…

SATAN HAS HIS SECRET AGENTS IN THE CHURCH Many of Satan’s people attend church, prophesy, teach, lead worship, preach and look ever so religious and spiritual, dressed in church appropriate clothing and are in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s or older so you would never suspect that they could possibly be evil. Some of them pray in tongues (often demonic tongues), act like they intercede in prayer for others, but will seek out to mentor people who have been emotionally hurt and broken in their lives as they are easy targets. They act like they are being touched by the Holy Spirit (yet instead are snapping their heads back and forth and up and down and cackling like witches because of the Kundalini spirit), lay their hands on people acting like they are praying for them but are actually imparting demons to them, even acting like they are doing deliverance but instead giving people more demons instead of delivering them, have evil intentions in their heart and are set on trying to destroy God’s anointed people through accusations, lies and gossiping to as many who will listen to destroy their reputations and effectiveness in the church and their callings. They…

CHURCH LEADERS OFTEN ABUSE THE VICTIMS OF ABUSE Sadly many who are in relationships with people will get hurt and abused. The victim tolerates the abuse over time and eventually either gets beaten down enough that they give up on ever getting freed and die or they muster up enough courage to go to someone at their church or a counselor to try and get help to confront their abuser. Sadly most don’t get proper help because the abuser, who operates in demons, will be very persuasive and convince the pastor or counselor that the main problem is their true victim by acting like they are innocent and having private communication implicating the victim. They buddy up with the counselor and get them to give advice that allows them control over the victim and even blaming the victim. And often the abuser will be more intimidating as the victim is easier to blame and the path of least resistance. Thus often the counseling will make life worse for them because now the abuser is really mad because they dared to get help and expose their abuse. 1 - Pastors and counselors advice will often make a victims situation worse giving…

HOW SHOULD YOU HANDLE EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS? Emotional abuse in marriage & relationships is unfortunately more common than people would want to think and is also equally as challenging to decide just how to address it and with whom. Most times when two people get married for the first time they expect their partners to love on them and to allow them to make decisions that bring the greatest level of satisfaction to them. They both expect to be able to do whatever they want to do that will bring them the greatest level of enjoyment. Often times shortly after the wedding (and some times longer) one of the spouses will usually place demands to make most of the decisions in the marriage and begin to control and manipulate the other spouse who usually has more of a giving heart. Over time it begins to cause the spouse who is being controlled to feel less valued, dominated and no longer feel loved. The more demanding spouse wants even more control, will behave very proudly and talk more condescending with disrespect to their mate. Eventually the controlled spouse will feel sick to their stomachs frequently because of the…

WHEN WE ALLOW ANYONE TO BE AN IDOL BEFORE THE LORD WE ALLOW THEIR DEMONS TO TORMENT US Many of us have made idols before the Lord. Food, alcohol, drugs, money, smoking, gambling, etc But what about people? A parent, spouse or child? Many have a parent who operates in the Jezebel spirit who want you to submit to them over God. Making you submit to their demons. Many are married to a spouse who has Jezebel and they want you to obey them over God. They want you to submit to their demons. So they will threaten you and control you to get you to bow down to their demons who will cause you mental anguish and physical sickness. I went to church with a couple who was in my Sunday school adult class for parents. Her husband seemed very sweet and kind. But behind closed doors he was horrible to his children and her. He was sexually molested by his father. He had demons. She slowly died of a brain tumor due to his daily words of evil. He got remarried and she got sick within a year. Now he has cancer as his demons know he has…

DATING AFTER A NARCISSISTIC / JEZEBEL RELATIONSHIP So many people have been hurt and wounded in their lives and have not been able to forgive those who hurt them. This allows the spirit of Jezebel to affect their souls (mind, will and emotions) causing them to trigger and become very controlling in their relationships. Their behavior self sabotages their own relationships yet their demons will tell them that they are a victim instead of the cause of the broken relationships. They will target people who are more empathic (Ahab spirit) that are more easy to control. So what if you have been hurt in a relationship with a person who has operated in the Jezebel spirit (narcissist) and are looking for a healthy relationship? 1) Make sure that you are healed from the Jezebellic wounds. Ask Jesus to speak to you and show you what happened to the person who hurt you deeply. You will learn that they were hurt deeply by a father, mother or someone else. They also were most likely sexually violated through the viewing of porn or molested. They had demons that had rights over their souls due to unforgiveness. Tell the Lord “I choose to…

GOD HATES EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS Many people want to only think of God as an all loving, look the other way on people’s sins with no negative consequences for people’s actions, who tolerates those who abuse others emotionally while giving us hyper grace to get into heaven after we have died never holding us accountable for our bad behavior and thinking nothing of our fruits of the flesh and never looking at the intentions of our hearts and minds. But God is a God of justice and He knows the truth about all of us. He knows how we treat our spouse and children and other people and it all matters. He knows if we are emotionally, verbally, physically or sexually abusive or perverse. And the Bible says he hates abuse, perversity, lying, and doing evil. There are many people who abuse their spouse their entire marriage and unfortunately use the religious people in the church to protect them by shouting the “God hates divorce” scripture in order to keep them chained to their abuser in marriage while ignoring the scriptures about their own abuse of their spouse which causes many to reluctantly desire to leave them so they…