GOD HATES EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS Many people want to only think of God as an all loving, look the other way on people’s sins with no negative consequences for people’s actions, who tolerates those who abuse others emotionally while giving us hyper grace to get into heaven after we have died never holding us accountable for our bad behavior and thinking nothing of our fruits of the flesh and never looking at the intentions of our hearts and minds. But God is a God of justice and He knows the truth about all of us. He knows how we treat our spouse and children and other people and it all matters. He knows if we are emotionally, verbally, physically or sexually abusive or perverse. And the Bible says he hates abuse, perversity, lying, and doing evil. There are many people who abuse their spouse their entire marriage and unfortunately use the religious people in the church to protect them by shouting the “God hates divorce” scripture in order to keep them chained to their abuser in marriage while ignoring the scriptures about their own abuse of their spouse which causes many to reluctantly desire to leave them so they…

CORE VS ALTERNATE PERSONALITIES When we get hurt growing up by a parent, sibling, classmate, neighbor, teacher, friend or anyone and are not able to forgive them demons will gain legal rights to affect our soul. Our soul is made up of our mind (thoughts), will and emotions and when we have been hurt and not healed we will not be able to live in a calm and peaceful core state as our emotions and thoughts will be triggered. Jesus said in Matthew 6:14-15 that if we refuse to forgive others who hurt us then God will refuse to forgive us for our sins. So as we grow older and become accustomed to hearing demonic voices in our heads (that sound like our own thoughts) or feeling strong emotions then we will trigger into alternate personalities. We will overreact in our responses to people over simple things. We will become angry, enraged, take offense easily, raise our voices, or give people the silent treatment to control them passively, or behave jealously due to our insecurities and unhealed soul wounds. We will not behave consistently in our core personality which is who we really would be most of the time when…

LOVING YOUR PRODIGAL CHILDREN I have done thousands of personal healing and deliverance sessions for people around the world since 2015. Most all have been hurt by their parents in some way. Mostly through emotionally being wounded or abused. Some through physical abuse and some by sexual abuse. Many have been hurt through sexual violations, exposure to porn, molested, raped, etc. Children simply want to be loved by their parents, unconditionally. But the fact is that most all of their parents were hurt by their own parents and in other ways. Thus when a child gets hurt by a parent they often don’t forgive them and harbor unforgiveness or bitterness towards them which allow demonic spirits to torment their mind with lies, sadness, anger and hatred feeling rejected or abandoned and not good enough. “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled;” ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭12‬:‭14‬-‭15‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ So it is critical if we as a parent have hurt our children by the words or actions we have said or…

IF YOU HAVE UNHEALED SOUL WOUNDS YOU WILL MANIFEST When we grow up we all get hurt in a myriad of ways, but some get hurt more than others. We get emotionally hurt from words spoken to us that are mean and harsh or condemning. We also get hurt by actions, and physical and sexual abuse. Many of us get hurt by our own parent, siblings, relatives, neighbors, teachers, pastors, etc. We also get hurt if we are exposed to porn, sexually touched or exposed, molested or raped. Once we have been hurt we have the choice of truly forgiving that person from our hearts like Jesus did and behaving like Christ. Or we can be angry and bitter towards the person who hurt us and not forgive them in our hearts. Forgiveness does not require allowing your abuser to stay in your life. But if we do not forgive a person from our heart then demons will have legal rights to torment our mind with their thoughts causing us to trigger on other people and current relationships. We trigger by getting mad and angry, and overreacting to situations or going quiet for hours or days. Demons play a large…

It is not a popular message to confront people for their sin because it causes them to feel convicted but ultimately if it makes a difference whether they go to heaven or hell then they should be told the truth.  Sadly many pastors have watered down their messages so people will not leave their church and take their tithes with them. They don’t talk about the need for people to be set free from sin and living a godly life in obedience to the Bible. What does true salvation actually require?  Interesting if you Google salvation you will see this in Wikipedia: Salvation (from Latin: salvatio, from salva, 'safe, saved') is the state of being saved or protected from harm or a dire situation. In religion and theology, salvation generally refers to the deliverance of the soul from sin and its consequences. The academic study of salvation is called soteriology.   So salvation means the deliverance of our souls (mind, will and emotions) from sin and its associated consequences.   So for those pastors who preach that we can just ask Jesus into our hearts with no fruit similar to Jesus as evidence and keep on practicing sin and still get to heaven - what does the Bible actually say? Romans 6:15-23 NKJV From Slaves…

It has been amazing to watch in 2020 as the increase in demand around the world from people who are flocking to inner healing and deliverance ministries are looking for results that the mental health and counseling community rarely sees.  People are desperate for peace. Simply put – you cannot behaviorally improve your life by trying harder without going through the process of inner healing and deliverance.  Until you are able to address and stop all the negative thoughts that come from demons in your mind (50-60,000 thoughts a day of which 80% are negative and 95% repetitive from the day before according to a National Science Foundation study in 2005) you will be tormented and never have peace.   No matter how many times your pastor / counselor or therapist tells you to think positively and be at peace – if your demons have legal rights to torment your mind with their voices through unforgiveness of people who have hurt you in your past, behaving pridefully and rehashing all the bad things that have ever happened to you - then you will never experience peace.  Medicine and counseling from a non-spiritual perspective cannot cure a spiritual demonic issue. The most…

Matthew 4:17 New King James Version (NKJV) 17 From that time Jesus began to preach and to say, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” Many Christians around the globe have been crying out for revival for many years.  Unfortunately the main issue is that without true repentance we will not be able to see lasting revival and that starts with the church leadership.  We need to see church leaders who humble themselves before the Lord by repenting for their sins and pursuing righteousness in their hearts, and living a life of holiness. When people grow up they get wounded in their souls by their mothers, fathers, step parents, siblings and others.  They get sexually violated, emotionally and even physically hurt.  Every time we get hurt by other people our soul gets wounded and then demons are able to legally attach to us by tormenting our thoughts.  Then when we get married and relationships we tend to get into arguments and strife with the person we initially used to love.  Then we become married and miserable and often go through a divorce and then get remarried and unless we get our soul wounds healed and delivered from the demons tormenting our thoughts,…

Have you ever considered what you say to your children can haunt them the rest of their lives if you speak negative words of death over them?  Conversely, if you speak positive words of encouragement and life that they will blossom like a flower that receives sunshine and water and will see blessings in their lives.  How often do you think and take inventory of exactly how you speak to and treat your own children?   Those who spoke negatively every day to their children as they were growing up will see children who are largely affected in a negative way for the rest of their lives.  Unfortunately the parents will then blame their children and speak out words of condemnation over them causing a huge chasm to expand throughout their lifetimes between them.  Their children will naturally distance themselves from their parents - wanting to stop the onslaught of death words over them.  Then often the parents will blame shift the reasons that their children want nothing to do with them onto their victimized children causing their children to feel hurt deeply and rarely wanting to ever speak to them as their parents need to own their abuse over…

What are soul wounds?  We are made up of three parts.  We are a spirit that has a soul and we live in a physical body.  Our souls are comprised of our minds, freewill and emotions.  Both Satan and God want our souls.  We have a freewill to choose to serve God or Satan.  When we are hurt growing up then demons have a legal right to attach to those wounds.  The demons then give us thoughts in our minds and remind us of the pain that we went through, the injustices, the violations, the rejections, and when we listen to them we will not be at peace. We will have challenges sleeping at night as the enemy torments our thoughts. We will make bad decisions that will hurt us and others.  We will have more fruit of the flesh then fruit of the Holy Spirit.  We have to discern which thoughts are from the enemy and which are from the Lord and reject all thoughts coming from the enemy. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 New King James Version (NKJV) 3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. 4 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling…