DATING AFTER A NARCISSISTIC / JEZEBEL RELATIONSHIP So many people have been hurt and wounded in their lives and have not been able to forgive those who hurt them. This allows the spirit of Jezebel to affect their souls (mind, will and emotions) causing them to trigger and become very controlling in their relationships. Their behavior self sabotages their own relationships yet their demons will tell them that they are a victim instead of the cause of the broken relationships. They will target people who are more empathic (Ahab spirit) that are more easy to control. So what if you have been hurt in a relationship with a person who has operated in the Jezebel spirit (narcissist) and are looking for a healthy relationship? 1) Make sure that you are healed from the Jezebellic wounds. Ask Jesus to speak to you and show you what happened to the person who hurt you deeply. You will learn that they were hurt deeply by a father, mother or someone else. They also were most likely sexually violated through the viewing of porn or molested. They had demons that had rights over their souls due to unforgiveness. Tell the Lord “I choose to…

GOD HATES EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS Many people want to only think of God as an all loving, look the other way on people’s sins with no negative consequences for people’s actions, who tolerates those who abuse others emotionally while giving us hyper grace to get into heaven after we have died never holding us accountable for our bad behavior and thinking nothing of our fruits of the flesh and never looking at the intentions of our hearts and minds. But God is a God of justice and He knows the truth about all of us. He knows how we treat our spouse and children and other people and it all matters. He knows if we are emotionally, verbally, physically or sexually abusive or perverse. And the Bible says he hates abuse, perversity, lying, and doing evil. There are many people who abuse their spouse their entire marriage and unfortunately use the religious people in the church to protect them by shouting the “God hates divorce” scripture in order to keep them chained to their abuser in marriage while ignoring the scriptures about their own abuse of their spouse which causes many to reluctantly desire to leave them so they…