HOW TO KNOW WHO IS THE NARCISSIST AND WHO IS THE EMPATH IN A COUPLE It is very hard for the average public to know who is the narcissist and who is the victim / Empath in a relationship. Most people believe anyone who tells them anything - the narcissist knows that most people will believe everything they say and they are professional grade liars.  - Narcissists will tell their false narrative first to as many who will listen and they will post on social media - they want to get their narrative out first in order to gain sympathy from as many as possible. Then they will continue to lie with additional false details to make the narrative cause even more to feel sorry for them as appearing like they are a victim.  - Narcissists will say they are married to a crazy or abusive person and accuse their spouse of being a Narcissist often - Narcissists will tell you how they were a victim and cry many fake tears - Narcissists will act overly nice to as many people as possible - but it is fake nice  - Narcissists must be in charge of everything and everyone -…

YOU HAVE A MORAL COMPASS SO HAVE BEEN LABELED THE SCAPEGOAT / BLACK SHEEP  Today there are many people in the world who have been unknowingly selected to be the scapegoat in their family and in other relationships in life such as work, marriages, ministry, church, etc. In a family situation the scapegoat carries the sins of their own family (which typically have many members in the family who are unhealthy, toxic and/or dysfunctional). For instance, Dad is an alcoholic, sex addict, aggressor, prideful while Mom is his enabler. Or Mom is angry, controlling, belittling, prideful, demanding and Dad is her enabler. The family is expected to deny the truth of their parent’s dysfunction and hide it from the public (keep their dirty laundry buried in the backyard). So what the toxic family members will do is to label one of their children the “problem child” and blame everything that is wrong with their family on that child. This scapegoated child can do no right in their eyes.  The scapegoated child typically has a moral compass and is a truth teller that won’t look the other way and ignore sin, but have a very good heart. The parent who is…

SATAN IS FINE IF YOU GO TO CHURCH AS LONG AS YOU DON’T GET DELIVERED  Most churches sadly don’t teach people how to forgive all who hurt them from their hearts (Matt 18:21-35), having them repent for their pride and sin and getting them delivered from demons tormenting and oppressing their minds and bodies. When the religious spirits on leaders cause them to tell people they don’t need to truly repent and change from their sinful behavior, addictions and idols and just need to invite Jesus into their hearts then most people will continue to live a very compromised, sinful life.  Deliverance changes everything in a true believer’s life - they change from living in their fleshly sin to walking in the fruit of the spirit in obedience to the Bible. Many can even have the Holy Spirit but will still listen to their demonic spirits oppressing their minds and thoughts and trigger emotionally in evil. It’s time for all true Christians to get delivered with the evidence of the fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control), humility and sexual purity with no gossiping, lying or slander. Sin becomes rare in a true…

YOUR PAST PAIN HAS QUALIFIED & ANOINTED YOU TO HELP OTHERS   Many who have been greatly hurt in the past have some of the greatest and strongest anointings from God to help others to be healed from the very same pain and trauma. When we have obeyed the Bible and forgiven everyone who hurt us like Jesus did then God anoints us to help others who are going through similar wounds to learn how to forgive and heal. When we choose to forgive those who hurt us then it allows our sins to also be forgiven by God according to Matthew 6:14-15. You are able to understand why those who hurt you did what they did because they were hurt and wounded and had demons that tormented their minds and caused them to hurt you. Then God uses that experience to anoint you to help others to heal from the same pain you endured through forgiveness.  Your past painful experiences literally allow you to minister to others who have been hurt and abused in similar ways. You have a testimony of overcoming to encourage others. You learn not to take offense when others try to hurt you today. You…

HEALING FROM REJECTION, BETRAYAL & ABUSE I have taken thousands of people around the world through personal sessions to help them get healed from their past soul wounds. Everyone has been rejected, betrayed and emotionally abused by people, often a parent, relative, spouse, friend, church people, etc. Some were rejected in the womb by their mother or father that didn’t want them. Some had a parent that wanted a girl instead of a boy or a boy instead of a girl. Some were cheated on or emotionally abused by their spouse. All have been betrayed by someone like a family member, spouse, ex spouse, church member, colleague at work, etc. Many have been emotionally abused, or physically or sexually. 95% of us have either been exposed to porn or sexually molested by the age of 14.  When you are rejected, betrayed or abused you will hear demonic spirits speak to you in your mind causing torment and telling you that you are justified to be angry, bitter, deserving of justice or revenge. You will often will feel alone, sad and even depressed. It makes it very hard to forgive so that you can be healed and delivered.  Often it causes…

ARE YOU TIRED OF WAITING FOR GOD TO CHANGE YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES? Sometimes the Lord is teaching you about how people behave who are operating in demonic spirits, witchcraft and evil so you can be aware of it for the future. You may be teaching others about what you learned in the future and personal experience is the best teacher although can be painful.  Sometimes God is moving people out of the way so that you can walk into your blessing.  Sometimes the Lord is using the time of waiting to increase your faith that ultimately He will come through for you and when your circumstances finally change you will be even more thankful and grateful and that when you must wait for things in the future your faith will be stronger to endure.  Sometimes God is developing your character through the circumstances. Think about Joseph being sold into slavery by his jealous brothers. Then he was lied about by Potiphars wife who wanted sex with him and he did what was right and ran from her but accused and thrown into prison for 3 years before finally being positioned into number 2 behind the Pharaoh in all of Egypt.  Sometimes…

IT’S BETTER TO BE ALONE THAN TO HAVE MANY UNGODLY FRIENDS & FAMILY Written by Mindy Schuman There are many times in life when we find ourselves surrounded by friends, family and others who don’t have our best interest at heart. There are often individuals we allow to be part of our lives who have not aligned themselves with the kingdom of God and His commandments and have become a negative influence in our thoughts and actions. In many cases we allow these individuals to speak into us and be an active part of our lives causing much damage to ourselves and even our spouse and children. These types of relationships can be harmful and cause us to lose our peace that God desires us to have. We have a responsibility to our spouses, if married, and children to guard ourselves from those with evil intentions and who habitually practice sin and walk out their fleshly desires. Many mistakenly believe that being connected to those who have repeatedly and habitually been critical, judgmental and harsh is somehow better than being alone. But it is far better to pull away and be separate than be negatively influenced, controlled, manipulated and mistreated…

WHY DEMONS DON’T LEAVE WHEN YOU ASK JESUS INTO YOUR HEART In Luke 13:5 Jesus said we must repent from our sin or we will perish - it never says to ask Jesus into our hearts. Repent means to turn from sin and change our behavior. Obey the Bible. Demons have many legal rights to torment people prior to when they make a decision to  commit to Christ and they still have legal rights to torment them after they make a commitment to Christ, after they have been baptized and after receiving the Holy Spirit. Why? Why would they leave if they don’t have to? Demons attach to our soul (mind, will and emotions) until we truly forgive all from our hearts who hurt us and repent for our pride and sin and change to walking in the fruit of the spirit. The Holy Spirit is in our spirit and tries to help us get delivered from demons.  According to Matt 18:21-35 Jesus says if we don’t truly forgive everyone from our hearts that we will be turned over to the tormentors. What torments people? Demons. Thousands of negative thoughts a day, causing fear, anger, anxiety, depression, jealousy, lust, control,…

THE LEVIATHAN SPIRIT CAUSES BACK & NECK PAIN, HEADACHES, INSOMNIA, CONFUSION & PRIDE People who are attacked by the spirit of Leviathan have the following symptoms: - Pride (think you are better than someone else, opposite of humble) - God refers to prideful people as “stiff necked” in 2 Chronicles 30:8 and Proverbs 29:1 so you will have pain in your neck  - False humility (pretend to be humble)  - Self righteous (Pharisees) - Twists communication in their minds and causes confusion and lies (you will think someone said something that they didn’t or you will lie about things you said or did that were bad) - Wraps around spine and twists - Back / neck pain - Headaches - Insomnia  - Dreams of alligators which represent Leviathan - Causes drowsiness when reading Bible or Christian books  - Scoliosis  - Fibromyalgia  - Many other sicknesses / diseases / afflictions  - Freemasons / Scottish Rite / Shriners / Eastern Star (women) in your blood line - Memory issues - can lead to dementia or Alzheimer’s in older years of your life because you have allowed the demons to give you thousands of thoughts every day The Bible talks about a creature…

PEOPLE WITH DEMONS CAN’T STOP MANIFESTING AROUND GODLY PEOPLE  People who are tormented by demonic spirits in their minds cannot control themselves from manifesting, especially when they are around truly godly people. They feel compelled to say things to control & manipulate, to criticize and judge unrighteously, as their pride is so strong that they cannot stop themselves. They feel justified because their demons tell them they are right and they need to tell others to do what they want. It’s similar to when Jesus was on earth and the prideful Pharisees seethed with anger, jealousy and hatred for Jesus - yet Jesus called them out.  So many are unhealed church people who are self righteous and walk in false humility. Their demons within them cause them to not be able to simply behave with love and respect. They cannot resist their urges to say things to hurt people because they hear thousands of demonic thoughts a day and obey what they hear. They manifest on others and think they are in the right when they are totally in the wrong.  You can often see it in their eyes as they get darker and their faces contort. The demons reveal…