HOW NARCISSISTS MANIPULATE CHILDREN Following are how narcissists manipulate their children: Assigned Roles: Each child is given a specific role. The more empathetic child often becomes the scapegoat, blamed for everything that is negative, and they usually have a moral compass  Golden Child: One child often is treated like royalty, never disciplined, and groomed to become a future narcissist, believing they are special and loved. But this "love" is fake. Constant Supply: These children are manipulated to constantly meet the narcissist's needs, becoming a source of toxic energy. Distorted View of Love: Children learn to believe that "love" means being overly praised and then devalued. As adults, they often seek out narcissistic partners because they mistake this pattern for real love. Narcissists cannot love anyone so they control and manipulate them. They discourage independence, freedom and individuality.  Foggy Reality: Narcissists create a confusing reality through fear, obligations, and guilt. Ask any child of a narcissist, and they'll tell you these tactics were a big part of their relationship Parental Alienation: Narcissists often alienate the children from the kind parent. This can create deep confusion and a lasting impact, as a parent struggling for years to overcome this. Role Reversal: Children…

SIGNS YOU ARE DEALING WITH A FAMILY GENERATIONAL CURSE I’ve helped thousands of Christians around the world to get their soul wounds healed and be delivered from demons and most of them struggled with the same issues that their parents and grandparents struggled with. In Deuteronomy chapter 28 it talks about blessings for obedience to the Bible and curses for disobedience.  Below are some of the most common family generational curses that I have seen in the people I have taken through sessions: Mental / Emotional issues Prone to accidents (drop things, break things, car accidents, falls) Addictions to alcohol / drugs / food / sex Chronic hereditary sicknesses (doctors cannot find any normal cause) Divorce and family breakdowns (children alienated from parents and siblings) Financial problems (long term poverty) Unnatural deaths / dying young / suicides  Female issues (barrenness / miscarriages / menstruation problems) We all need to be the generational curse breaker in our families. When we don’t do our part to forgive all who ever hurt us we will be tormented (Matt 18:21-35). When we walk in pride God is against us. Proverbs 16:5  "The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They…