IF THE CHURCH ADVISES YOU TO SUBMIT TO AN ABUSIVE SPOUSE ASK GOD WHAT HE ADVISES Many pastors and church leaders and church people use the “God hates divorce” partial verse to cause an abused spouse to feel that they must stay with their abuser at all costs but what would God advise? God would want the abuser to get their childhood wounds healed, have them forgive those who hurt them when they were young and then to have them repent for their pride and sin and pursue getting deliverance from their demons which caused them to emotionally abuse and worse which caused the victim to reach out for help. The simple truth is that God never wants anyone to be abused, nor tolerate it. And God is not pleased with anyone who abuses their spouse.  Malachi 2:14-16 NKJV “Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the Lord has been witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your wife by covenant. But did He not make them one, Having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your…

IT IS NEVER GOD’S WILL TO HAVE ANYONE DOMINATE ANOTHER PERSON People who are not delivered from demons will often dominate and control others with the purpose of forcing others to do exactly what they want throughout their lives. If people don’t submit or obey them they will raise their voice or talk on and on or give the silent treatment to them to wear their victims down to get them to obey.  Below are just some of the situations where people dominate others that God hates: Husband dominates his wife Wife dominates her husband Pastor dominates his congregation  Church leaders & teachers dominate attenders Employer dominates their employees Boss dominates his worker Teacher dominates their students  Parents dominate their children Children can also dominate a parent A mentor dominates their studen When a person is controlled, dominated and manipulated by another person to do what the dominating person wants and not what God would want they are essentially having witchcraft done to them. God gives us all a freewill to obey Him. People can also manipulate another person by producing a love or sexual desire in one person toward another - like a love spell cast upon them. When…

DEMONIZED PEOPLE PUSH YOUR LIMITS TO SEE HOW FAR YOU WILL LET THEM GO People with demons will slowly push your limits over time to see what they can do to make you submit to their wills. People with a strong lust demon will push you sexually to see what you will let them do. At first they will try to talk to you to see if they can find out your interests and likes. Then over time they may try to do nice things for you to gain your trust. Then they will attempt to lightly touch you on your arms, back or hands and if you don’t resist they will know you are accepting them. Then later as your defenses break down they may try to hold your hand for a few seconds while talking about a subject you are interested in. If you allow that then later they may try to hug you. As long as you allow them to slowly shift the limits they will keep pushing for more over time to see what else you will allow them to do. Which can lead to kissing and eventually sexual interactions. This is called limit testing.  Many…

MANIPULATING PEOPLE WITH GUILT IS A FORM OF WITCHCRAFT  When people try to make you do what they want which is not what God wants then they will often resort to making you feel guilty to control and manipulate you into doing their will. God never controls us through guilt as He gives us a freewill to choose to serve Him or not so people who try to control others to do whatever they want and not what God wants are in rebellion to God and the Bible says rebellion is as witchcraft in 1 Samuel 15:23.  So whoever tries to make you feel guilty understand they are not of the Lord and do not receive it. Do not allow them to manipulate you by guilting you to do what they want. The Lord and Holy Spirit never causes us to feel guilty - they convict us lovingly if we need to repent or change.  People who try to control or guilt you are operating in a subtle form of witchcraft which the Bible also refers to as sorcery - which is a fruit of the flesh.  Galatians 5:19-21 NKJV “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are:…

WHEN JEZEBEL CAN’T CONTROL YOU THEY LIE TO OTHERS TO GET THEM TO HATE YOU The Jezebel spirit affects both women and men. Revelation 2:18-23 says we are not to tolerate people who operate in it because they are evil. Jezebel does their damage through controlling and manipulating their victims to do what they want and not what God wants. They operate in a level of witchcraft. When their victims no longer submit or obey their demands they resort to controlling them through lying about them to others and devising a false narrative in order to get others to hate them and stop them from accomplishing what the Lord wants. Most people believe their lies because they are greats actors and actresses and will support Jezebel to hate on their victims to stop them from doing what the Lord wants them to accomplish.  In 1 Kings 21:1-16 Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard to turn into a vegetable garden. Naboth refused to sell it to him for he was giving it to his children. So when Ahab pouted about it Jezebel said she would help him get it. She arranged a banquet and invited Naboth to it under false pretense to honor…

PRIDEFUL PEOPLE FEEL COMPELLED TO CONTROL & CORRECT YOU CONSTANTLY  Prideful people have demons and are some of the most self-righteous people on earth like the Pharisees. They are spiritually blind to see that they need deliverance from demons and hear thousands of voices a day telling them to tell others what to do because they are perfect. Their demons tell them that others just need to listen to them and their infinite wisdom all the while they have logs in their own eyes (Matthew 7:1-6). The demons convince them that they are hearing from the Lord and Holy Spirit when they are actually hearing from demons. They can’t just keep their mouths shut as the demons compel them so strongly so they end up hurting people all day long with their words and then wonder why no one wants to be around them.  They provoke and hurt people every day by listening to their own demons and then criticizing others, shaming and blaming them for things that are insignificant or even not true all the while thinking they are perfect and the salt of the earth. They have no fruit of the spirit but lots of fleshly characteristics. Galatians…

JEZEBEL & AHAB HAD MONEY & CONTROL BUT ELIJAH OVERCAME WITH GOD’S ANOINTING Jezebel and Ahab had money, power, religious worship of idols, control, murdered people who were against them and yet Elijah had God’s anointing and was able to stop the rain, kill the 850 prophets of Baal and Asherah and defeat Jezebel and Ahab. People today who are serving Jezebel and Ahab often have money, control and power and try to stop those who are truly of God. They try to shut them down and lie about them to as many who will listen just like Jezebel did to Naboth. Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard for a vegetable garden so Jezebel lied about Naboth accusing him of blaspheming God and coming against King Ahab and killed him to steal his vineyard to give to Ahab. People today will be accused by Jezebel with lies to manipulate other people to come against those of the Lord who are innocent. 1 Kings 21 NKJV Naboth Is Murdered for His Vineyard 21 And it came to pass after these things that Naboth the Jezreelite had a vineyard which was in Jezreel, next to the palace of Ahab king of Samaria. 2 So…

HOW SHOULD YOU HANDLE EMOTIONAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS? Emotional abuse in marriage & relationships is unfortunately more common than people would want to think and is also equally as challenging to decide just how to address it and with whom. Most times when two people get married for the first time they expect their partners to love on them and to allow them to make decisions that bring the greatest level of satisfaction to them. They both expect to be able to do whatever they want to do that will bring them the greatest level of enjoyment. Often times shortly after the wedding (and some times longer) one of the spouses will usually place demands to make most of the decisions in the marriage and begin to control and manipulate the other spouse who usually has more of a giving heart. Over time it begins to cause the spouse who is being controlled to feel less valued, dominated and no longer feel loved. The more demanding spouse wants even more control, will behave very proudly and talk more condescending with disrespect to their mate. Eventually the controlled spouse will feel sick to their stomachs frequently because of the…

I hear from thousands of people each year who have struggled through being emotionally, physically or sexually abused in their relationships, often times for much of their lives (marriages, fathers and mothers, step fathers, church leadership and those who attend, friends, etc.).  Most people who attend church who have been married have been preached to that God hates divorce and so feel like they must stay in a toxic, abusive relationships until death do they part.  Of course God hates divorce – but He also hates abuse which causes the victims to feel sick to their stomachs and often receive diseases and a slow death due to the unhealthy control, feel scared of their spouse and have to walk on egg shells every day while submitting to the demons in their spouse, parents or others.  Does God actually want you to stay submitted to a person whose demons are manifesting on you every day, verbally and emotionally abusing you for hours every day, causing you to feel worthless at best and suicidal at worst, dying slowly inside your body, soul and spirit every day and unable to do anything for the Lord?  Absolutely not.  And abuse does not have to…

Most people think that witchcraft is done by witches who wear tall black pointy hats, with green tinted faces and a wart, who cackle when they laugh and boil things like bats and newts in black cauldrons and cast spells on people and astral project to listen in on people’s conversations.  Yes there are some witches who could fit that description but there are far more who are doing witchcraft every day who look normal and are in leadership of most churches around the world as well as have their own ministries.  And many of them are also men. Truth be told – at the simplest level - witchcraft is when one person tries to make another person do what they want which goes against what God wants for them (sometimes in very subtle ways while others are more overt).  It is not loving or true freedom to try to make a person do what you want them to do when it ultimately hurts them.  Controlling other people to do what you want is done by both men and women and is witchcraft. Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom (2 Corinthians 3:17). The reason people control…