There can be fine lines for many couples when a healthy submission of a wife to their husband becomes ungodly control from their husband which causes much strife and ruins all intimacy.  There are also wives who expect their husbands to submit to them by raising their voices and demanding them to listen and obey them. The verse in the Bible that talks about wives submitting to their husbands can be one of the more controversial verses for people in the church: Ephesians 5:22-33 NKJV Marriage—Christ and the Church  22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his…