Ahab Spirit Emotional Healings Jezebel Spirit Leviathan Spirit Peaceful Living Physical Healings Repentance Spiritual Growth


People who struggle with the spirit of Jezebel are unable to keep people who are godly as close friends because their spirits are not the same.  When you have a godly spirit within you and have interactions with people who operate under the spirit of Jezebel you will eventually discern their ungodly spirit and behaviors and ultimately pull away from them.  People receive the Jezebel spirit when they are hurt growing up (by fathers, mothers, step parents, sexually violated, etc.) People with Jezebel love to go to church and get into ministry leadership positions so they can shut down the true Holy Spirit from flowing and so they can control more people (including their spouse) and take out their past pains and hurts on their current relationships. You can diagnose those who operate in the spirit of Jezebel because they operate in the following characteristics:


  • Controlling (the voices tell them that their decisions are the best and they can’t trust you or others – they feel if they control other people then they will never be hurt again)
  • Manipulative (they will guilt you to do what they want – “you know if you don’t watch my child so I can go out to an event then I will have to leave them with my neighbor who is not a Christian and they could get hurt”)
  • Anxious / Fearful
  • Very Jealous
  • Angry when you are happy
  • Demanding
  • Defiant
  • Selfish
  • Prideful
  • Sexually impure & selfish and will control their spouse if they don’t do what they want through cutting them off
  • Push their victims to fornicate and have sex outside of marriage
  • So either a lot of sex or none but never true intimacy and love
  • Master Liar and half truths
  • Desire for power and leadership
  • Wants to shut down true Holy Spirit
  • More dominant
  • Little to no empathy for their victims
  • Intimidates / threatens
  • Rebellious
  • Suspicious of your intentions / paranoid
  • Critical / Judgmental
  • Show contempt & disrespect
  • They take offense easily / hypersensitive and offend people often
  • Will overtalk you so you can’t talk and talk for hours to wear you down so they will get their way
  • Argue about petty things
  • Rarely ever admit they are wrong or apologize
  • Especially target leaders of ministries or churches to discredit and lie about them to hurt their ministries
  • Exaggerates everything
  • Great at acting like they are the victim to get people to sympathize with them over their true victims and will use social media and have private conversations to gain support and get people to believe lies about their godly victim
  • They act assured but are very insecure
  • They act sweet and innocent but it’s fake as they are mean and bully their victims behind closed doors
  • Cannot stand to be told no
  • They feel like they are your personal policeman and will report on you if you don’t do what they think you should do
  • Always have drama in their lives and blames others but want sympathy
  • Demand you do whatever they tell you
  • Loves to provoke people until they get them angry and then blame them when their victims can no longer stand it and say things back to them in exasperation
  • Can’t stand it if other people love you more than them
  • Craves attention and adoration
  • Enjoy starting arguments as they never want anyone to have peace
  • Will continue to repeat their version of a story over and over to convince people their lies are truth
  • Women will pursue men aggressively
  • Constant chatter from the enemy in their mind causing them to operate in fear
  • Overly concerned with their physical appearance – in love with themselves – love to be adored and praised – women often wear a lot of makeup to seduce men to like them and get them to do what they want
  • Very secretive to cover up their lies
  • Want you to spend lots of $ on them and believe they deserve the best. Often need $ and drains their victims of $
  • They tell you to do something but get mad at you when you don’t to it exactly as they would
  • Those who are in relationship with them often feel sick to their stomach as they have to walk on eggshells around them to keep the peace and they can develop other sicknesses and diseases including cancer
  • Target their victims for months by seeing your likes and dislikes on social media and then portray themselves to be that person you want to draw you in – but once married you discover they are entirely different
  • Unable to truly love
  • Enjoy playing mind games and stringing you along playing on your heart strings and mercy heart
  • Once they can no longer control you will discard you
  • Will isolate you so you won’t be able to have other people detect their dark behavior so no one will listen to your cries for help
  • Have many secret private conversations with people to lie about you and try to destroy your reputation to turn them against you
  • Do not want you to communicate with them using 3 way texts or messages with other people so they can’t be held accountable as to what they said as other people will be able to see what is going on
  • Perfectionistic – but their decisions are not good
  • Betray you and very disloyal
  • Want to stop you from ever speaking about the evil they do yet will spread rumors and lies about you to as many people as possible to cause people to think you are bad to turn them against you and control you
  • Nothing you can do will please them and you will never have peace if you are in a relationship with them
  • Accuse their victims of being a narcissist over and over on social media and in secret conversations with others
  • Wants you to submit to them instead of God – this is idolatry
  • Will act like they are anointed of God but they have no anointing
  • Love their titles (pastor, apostle, etc) which they often purchase online or are self-appointed
  • Can have people they idolize who represent ungodly behavior (sexual movie stars, singers, etc)
  • Love to be the center of attention and post a lot of selfies on social media
  • If they are a woman they will not submit to a godly husband – if they are a man then they will be overly controlling of their wife
  • Prey upon the mercy hearts of others
  • Double standard (will not let u look at their phones but demand you show you your phone so they can check on your texts or calls or searches)
  • Drive a wedge between their children (more women) or have a favored child
  • Their children will often not get along with them but will often like their step mother or step father who are more gentle and loving
  • The Psychological community would diagnose them with Narcissistic Personality Disorder
  • Accuse their victim of being a Narcissist/ Jezebel
  • Overt v Covert
  • Sins of commission


So what happens is those who are of the Lord and operate in the fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control) eventually discern over time that people with the Jezebel spirit are not godly or good and will distance themselves from those who operate in Jezebel.  As they get older the only close friends they have also operate in the spirit of Jezebel as like spirits attract to each other and if you do not operate in demonic spirits then you will not want to be around those with demonic spirits.  Jesus talks about this in Luke:


Luke 12:49-53 NLT

Jesus Causes Division

49 “I have come to set the world on fire, and I wish it were already burning! 50 I have a terrible baptism of suffering ahead of me, and I am under a heavy burden until it is accomplished. 51 Do you think I have come to bring peace to the earth? No, I have come to divide people against each other! 52 From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against—or two in favor and three against.

53 ‘Father will be divided against son
and son against father;
mother against daughter
and daughter against mother;
and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law
and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.’”



People with Jezebel love to come against godly people to lie about them to other people and try to convince them that the good people are actually bad but over time when people spend time around the good people they know that the Jezebel person lied about them.  Often times the Jezebel person accuses their victims of the very thing that they are doing. There is a saying that “birds of a feather flock together” and it is true.  The only long-time friends that Jezebel will have is those who also have Jezebel. If a person tries to act like they are godly yet goes out and parties on the weekends and gets drunk or acts sexually perverse – then you eventually learn they are liars and you don’t believe them nor want to hang out with them.  The goats are being exposed from the sheep.  The tares are being exposed from the wheat.  Godly people simply cannot be friends with those who operate in Jezebel.  It’s time to cleanse yourself from those who are not of the Lord.


Revelation 2:18-23 NKJV

The Corrupt Church

18 “And to the angel of the church in Thyatira write,

‘These things says the Son of God, who has eyes like a flame of fire, and His feet like fine brass: 19 “I know your works, love, service, faith, and your patience; and as for your works, the last are more than the first. 20 Nevertheless I have a few things against you, because you allow that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce My servants to commit sexual immorality and eat things sacrificed to idols. 21 And I gave her time to repent of her sexual immorality, and she did not repent. 22 Indeed I will cast her into a sickbed, and those who commit adultery with her into great tribulation, unless they repent of their deeds. 23 I will kill her children with death, and all the churches shall know that I am He who searches the minds and hearts. And I will give to each one of you according to your works.

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