ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A SPOUSE? SATAN WOULD LOVE TO HELP
There are so many people who desperately want to be married to a man or woman. They are lonely and want companionship. Satan knows that you want to be married and will do his best to send you a spouse that appears to be good. He can even send you a spouse that looks like a “Christian” but is a total impostor. He can send you a Holy Spirit filled, tongue talking, ministerial, professional actor or actress who looks godly on the outside in every way.
Unfortunately, sadly for many who get married to them become shocked to learn that the person they married changed into a different person, often within a week or two after the wedding ceremony! They actually changed into an alternate personality that was mean and evil which is who they were all the time but were able to keep it hidden until after they got you to marry them. They trigger frequently into this alternate personality and are controlling, manipulative, sexually impure and lustful and want to take all your money. They curse you behind closed doors causing you to get physically sicker and feel in fear. They gossip lies about you to others trying to get them to think you are bad and they are innocent victims. Why?
Because the person you married never went through any type of healing process of their soul wounds from childhood and thus they never got delivered from their tormenting demons. Thus they fooled their spouse into marrying them by pretending to be nice to them in order to get them to marry them so they could hurt then. They had no intentions of getting healed and delivered to love them like Christ. Instead they still have demons and their demons want to destroy you and cause others to think you are horrible and ruin your reputation, especially if you are in ministry. They have such a hatefulness and despise for you because that’s what they secretly have for themselves due to their own wounds in childhood that never got healed and allowed demons to attach to their souls (mind, will and emotions).
There are millions of Christians who have been set up by Satan to marry people who are impostors, narcissists, Jezebellic people so they can stop their spouses from accomplishing God’s calling in their lives and destroy their lives and their children’s lives.
So it’s critical that you are healed of your own soul wounds and delivered from your own demons so then you will discern better and hear the Lord warn you of wolves in sheep’s clothing. Obviously the Lord will use any error in judgment to make you wiser in the future and possibly turn it into a ministry to help others.
Men are made to pursue women. So if a woman pursues a man then that should be a red flag. Obviously many men and women who operate in the Jezebel spirit will not show any signs prior to the wedding day but the longer you can prolong the wedding day the harder it will be for them to behave in a godly manner and you will have a greater chance of seeing them manifest. The truth is everyone should go through the process of getting their soul wounds healed and deliverance.
“And this is the second thing you do: You cover the altar of the Lord with tears, With weeping and crying; So He does not regard the offering anymore, Nor receive it with goodwill from your hands. Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the Lord has been witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your wife by covenant. But did He not make them one, Having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth. “For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.” You have wearied the Lord with your words; Yet you say, “In what way have we wearied Him?” In that you say, “Everyone who does evil Is good in the sight of the Lord, And He delights in them,” Or, “Where is the God of justice?””
Malachi 2:13-17 NKJV
If anyone treats you harshly as a spouse then they are dealing treacherously with you and God hates the abuse which causes the divorce. If the abusive spouse repents and gets delivered then there would be no need for a divorce. So they are the responsible party which caused it.
Now by this we know that we know Him, if we keep His commandments. He who says, “I know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Him. He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.”
I John 2:3-6 NKJV
““Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.”
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV
“Then Peter began to say to Him, “See, we have left all and followed You.” So Jesus answered and said, “Assuredly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My sake and the gospel’s, who shall not receive a hundredfold now in this time—houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions—and in the age to come, eternal life. But many who are first will be last, and the last first.””
Mark 10:28-31 NKJV
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? What agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; as God said, “I will make my dwelling among them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Therefore go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.”
2 Corinthian 6:14-18 ESV
Thus both husband and wife must go through the process of healing from their soul wounds and getting delivered from their demons and this process may take years to be fully freed. Otherwise if only one gets delivered and the other spouse doesn’t there will be constant strife due to the demons manifesting in the undelivered spouse.