Most relationships have one person who takes on the same characteristics of Jezebel and the other person like Ahab in 1st and 2nd Kings. People get the Jezebel spirit because of being hurt growing up by their mom or dad or step parent or others or through sexual violations (viewing porn, touched, molested or raped). This causes them to hear demons and they want their own way and to control their spouse and others. They then look for a partner to marry who they can control who is willing to compromise and tolerate their ungodly demands who will give in to them, which is the Ahab spirit. People get the Ahab spirit because they have a parent who gives in and compromises and aligns themselves with that spirit. Ahabs have a comfort level with their spouse demanding their way in order to help get them what they want. Ahab wanted Naboth’s vineyard but when he asked him to sell him his vineyard so he could turn it into a garden Naboth refused. So Ahab told Jezebel that Naboth refused to sell him his vineyard so she got him the vineyard by coming up with a plan and sending it out to the leaders where Naboth lived and inviting Naboth to a banquet in honor of him. Then she had two scoundrels accuse Naboth of blaspheming God and coming against King Ahab so they took him outside and stoned him, killing him and then giving his vineyard to Ahab. Later God told Elijah who confronted Ahab who repented to buy himself more time to live but he ultimately was killed. Ahab did more evil in the sight of the Lord then all the other kings because Jezebel stirred him up.
Today the two spirits of Jezebel and Ahab work in tandem to compromise living a godly life but wanting to appear godly. They affect people today who are in the church. Both will struggle with pride because they both were hurt growing up and the Leviathan spirit (Job 41) tells them not to trust anyone to make decisions for them and that their decisions are the best.
So most relationships are like Jezebel and Ahab because their demons attract to each other and sabotage everything that God wants to do. They tolerate sin and come against the true Holy Spirit from operating. They cause people to operate in the flesh and do not have the fruit of the spirit according to Galatians 5:16-26.
Below are the various characteristics of the spirits of Jezebel, Leviathan and Ahab:
Jezebel Spirit
– Controlling (the voices tell them that their decisions are the best and they can’t trust you or others – they feel if they control other people then they will never be hurt again)
– Manipulative (they will guilt you to do what they want – you know if you don’t watch my child so I can go out to an event then I will have to leave them with my neighbor who is not a Christian and they could get hurt)
– Anxious / Fearful
– Very Jealous
– Angry when you are happy
– Demanding
– Defiant
– Selfish
– Sexually impure & selfish and will control their spouse if they don’t do what they want through cutting them off
– Push their victims to have sex before marriage
– So either a lot of sex or none but never true intimacy and love
– Master Liar and half truths
– Desire for power and leadership
– Wants to shut down true Holy Spirit
– More dominant
– Little to no empathy for their victims
– Mock you and make fun of you, belittle you
– Intimidates / threatens
– Do not like to be inconvenienced
– Do not like to share
– Ruin holidays and birthdays and anniversaries
– Rebellious
– Suspicious of your intentions / paranoid
– Critical / Judgmental
– Show contempt & disrespect
– Speak ambiguously so they can deny what they said or wanted and never take responsibility
– They will cuss at their victims in private while acting godly to the public as their image of appearing godly is everything
– They take offense easily / hypersensitive and offend people often
– They accuse you of doing what they actually do
– Will overtalk you so you can’t talk and talk for hours to wear you down so they will get their way
– Argue about petty things
– Rarely ever admit they are wrong or apologize
– Especially target leaders of ministries or churches to discredit and lie about them to hurt their ministries
– Exaggerates everything
– Cannot stand it when plans change at the last minute because they cannot control
– Great at acting like they are the victim to get people to sympathize with them over their true victims and will use social media and have private conversations to gain support and get people to believe lies about their godly victim
– Talk often about exaggerated grandiose future plans that never happen
– Gossip and spread rumors against their victims
– Will compete against their own spouse on most things to try to defeat them
– They act assured but are very insecure
– They act sweet and innocent but it’s fake as they are mean and bully their victims behind closed doors
– Cannot stand to be told no
– They feel like they are your personal policeman and will report on you if you don’t do what they think you should do
– Always have drama in their lives and blames others but want sympathy
– Demand you do whatever they tell you
– Loves to provoke people until they get them angry and then blame them when their victims can no longer stand it and say things back to them in exasperation
– Can’t stand it if other people love you more than them
– Craves attention and adoration
– Enjoy starting arguments as they never want anyone to have peace
– Will continue to repeat their version of a story over and over to convince people their lies are truth
– Women will pursue men aggressively
– Constant chatter from the enemy in their mind causing them to operate in fear
– Overly concerned with their physical appearance – in love with themselves – love to be adored and praised – women often wear a lot of makeup to seduce men to like them and get them to do what they want
– Very secretive to cover up their lies
– Want you to spend lots of $ on them and believe they deserve the best. Often need $ and drains their victims of $
– They tell you to do something but get mad at you when you don’t to it exactly as they would and then will always change up what they said to make sure they can criticize you
– Those who are in relationship with them often feel sick to their stomach as they have to walk on eggshells around them to keep the peace and they can develop other sicknesses and diseases including cancer
– Target their victims for months by seeing your likes and dislikes on social media and then portray themselves to be that person you want to draw you in – but once married you discover they are entirely different
– Unable to truly love
– Enjoy playing mind games and stringing you along playing on your heart strings and mercy heart
– Once they can no longer control you will discard you
– Will isolate you so you won’t be able to have other people detect their dark behavior so no one will listen to your cries for help
– Have many secret private conversations with people to lie about you and try to destroy your reputation to turn them against you
– Do not want you to communicate with them using 3-way texts or messages with other people so they can’t be held accountable as to what they said as other people will be able to see what is going on
– Perfectionistic – but their decisions are not good
– Betray you and very disloyal
– Will try and do a lot of things / works that appear good to the community or church but never have any real fruit of the spirit in their lives to those closest to them
– If they are a man then they will often shake your hand in an unusually painful way (tightly) to show you they are in control (due to their insecurity)
– Want to stop you from ever speaking about the evil they do yet will spread rumors and lies about you to as many people as possible to cause people to think you are bad to turn them against you and control you
– Nothing you can do will please them and you will never have peace if you are in a relationship with them
– Accuse their victims of being a narcissist over and over on social media and in secret conversations with others
– Wants you to submit to them instead of God – this is idolatry
– Will act like they are anointed of God but they have no anointing
– Love their titles (prophet, pastor, apostle, etc.) which they often purchase online or are self-appointed
– Can have people they idolize who represent ungodly behavior (sexual movie stars, singers, etc.)
– Love to be the center of attention and post a lot of selfies on social media
– If they are a woman they will not submit to a godly husband – if they are a man then they will be overly controlling of their wife
– Prey upon the mercy hearts of others
– Double standard (will not let u look at their phones but demand you show you your phone so they can check on your texts or calls or searches)
– They also keep their phones very very close to them and never leave it behind even to get out of the vehicle to pump gas and get back in. And most will also have a lock on their phone with a password. But will not allow their partner to have a lock on their phone. They will call their partner a million times if they go somewhere and if they don’t answer they will get mad and say why didn’t you answer your phone. And they will make life miserable the whole time you are away by constantly calling and interrupting what you’re doing. Because usually they cheat and want to make sure their partner isn’t doing anything to them. Because that is what they do when they leave.
– Drive a wedge between their children (more women) or have a favored child
– Their children will often not get along with them but will often like their step mother or step father who are more gentle and loving
– Narcissistic Personality Disorder
– Accuse their victim of being a Narcissist/ Jezebel
– Overt v Covert
– Sins of commission
Leviathan Spirit
– Prideful (think they are better than someone else, opposite of humble)
– False humility
– Twists communication in their minds
– Wraps around spine and twists
– Back / neck pain
– Headaches
– Insomnia
– Causes drowsiness when reading Bible or Christian books
– Scoliosis
– Fibromyalgia
– Many other sicknesses / diseases / afflictions
– Freemasons / Scottish Rite / Shriners / Eastern Star (women)
Ahab Spirit
– Often has a position of influence & have money
– Does not like confrontation
– Allow ungodly behavior and decisions
– Has a hard time being a strong spiritual leader
– Strong desire to make everyone happy
– Afraid of being rejected and alone
– Does not like taking responsibility for things that could be bad but will do it
– Feels more secure being married to someone who will run the show
– Compromises on sexual purity in relationships (often Jezebel will seduce)
– Expecting bad things to take place
– Avoiding telling people what they need to do and passively putting up with bad behavior
– If someone is angry with you then you believe it must be your fault
– Believe it is your duty to make everyone happy and comfortable
– Believe what others say about them (if they say you are not a good person then you believe it)
– Have a challenge making decisions
– Believe you should always act happy in spite of hardship or trouble
– Always feel a failure, unaccepted, insecure
– Happiness and peace based on current circumstances and how loved, affirmed and accepted they feel
– Give power away in order for other people to validate your identity and to tell you who you are
– Fears abandonment and become clingy, needy and helpless
– Never take up your God-given freedom and refuse to step up and become assertive and command respect
– Usually do not forgive yourself and often has issues with God
– Overly merciful and sees the best in everyone – overlooks too much
– Forgive others too quickly without making them aware of their offenses
So we need to get our soul wounds healed and delivered from demons in order to live in a godly and righteous way. We must choose to forgive all those who hurt us in our pasts and command the attached demons to our souls to be gone. We need to get repent for having made any idols before the Lord (sexual impurity, drugs, alcohol, smoking, vaping, money, job, spouse, others, watching movies with ungodly content, porn, masturbation, etc., ). When we live our lives according to the world then demons will have legal rights to control us and we compromise our lives to the enemy. We must be honest, forgive others, repent for our pride and sin and choose to serve the Lord.
